From Online Match to First Date: Transitioning Smoothly
Description
A Simpler Guide to Single Men
Top 10 Signs He Is Cheating On You
Check Out Girls Without Getting Caught
10 Steps to Get Over Your Ex
How To: Forget Your Dating Check List
A Female Player's Strategy: The Preemptive Strike
It's Okay To Be Needy
Why Klutzy Women Are Attractive
How Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life
Men Play Dating Games Too
Given the time-frame suggested, I don’t completely disagree with the post. I think my overall criticism would be that the situational examples start to resemble a rule book, and they imply that by conducting one’s outward behavior in the right way, you can become or at least resemble an alpha. This may be true for very good actors, but I think it misses the point: alphaness is an internal quality. An alpha can look into his girlfriend’s eyes and say the sappiest shit and he’s still alpha. And the opposite is also true: a beta can recite the correct answer with the perfect delivery and he’s still a beta in her eyes.
These posts place too much emphasis on the verbal, which is probably because blogs are verbal mediums, and this obscures the fact that alphaness is primarily non-verbal and status-based. Who you are, how you look, how you hold yourself and how you talk go much further in the girl’s evaluation of you than what you say. I don’t envy the editor’s difficult job of trying to explain non-verbal alphaness using a verbal medium. My only suggestion would be that instead of emphasizing verbal word-play with the gal, more guys would be better served by working out, eating right, intellectually challenging themselves…basically by improving themselves for its own-sake. And in fairness to the editor, he has suggested these things in prior posts.
on June 1, 2010 at 4:27 pmxsplat
Sidewinder, I can see you are trying to be balanced, and I understand your aversion to the rule book mentality.
However the fact that certain rules irk is the friction required to get you to think about the inner attitudes required.
Yes, it’s a major attitude shift for us men to proclaim that our cock has mysterious ways that the woman does not and will never control.
I know you personally would hate to have to hold even that attitude. You want to give up the mystery, in favor of communion.
Sorry, but I think that attitude is not strategic, and it doesn’t take into account as much reality as do other attitudes. Stupid, in other words.
on June 1, 2010 at 4:29 pmPhillyBoy81
You should write a post on SATC2.
on June 1, 2010 at 4:30 pmj r
that is an interesting articlle that roosh posted a link to. it seems that some pressure group or special interest is always making the case for this or that looming specter that threatens to do away with us all. and the powers that be are always receptive to using that message as a means of excercising more and more control over the populace.
Top 10 Signs He Is Cheating On You
Check Out Girls Without Getting Caught
10 Steps to Get Over Your Ex
How To: Forget Your Dating Check List
A Female Player's Strategy: The Preemptive Strike
It's Okay To Be Needy
Why Klutzy Women Are Attractive
How Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life
Men Play Dating Games Too
Given the time-frame suggested, I don’t completely disagree with the post. I think my overall criticism would be that the situational examples start to resemble a rule book, and they imply that by conducting one’s outward behavior in the right way, you can become or at least resemble an alpha. This may be true for very good actors, but I think it misses the point: alphaness is an internal quality. An alpha can look into his girlfriend’s eyes and say the sappiest shit and he’s still alpha. And the opposite is also true: a beta can recite the correct answer with the perfect delivery and he’s still a beta in her eyes.
These posts place too much emphasis on the verbal, which is probably because blogs are verbal mediums, and this obscures the fact that alphaness is primarily non-verbal and status-based. Who you are, how you look, how you hold yourself and how you talk go much further in the girl’s evaluation of you than what you say. I don’t envy the editor’s difficult job of trying to explain non-verbal alphaness using a verbal medium. My only suggestion would be that instead of emphasizing verbal word-play with the gal, more guys would be better served by working out, eating right, intellectually challenging themselves…basically by improving themselves for its own-sake. And in fairness to the editor, he has suggested these things in prior posts.
on June 1, 2010 at 4:27 pmxsplat
Sidewinder, I can see you are trying to be balanced, and I understand your aversion to the rule book mentality.
However the fact that certain rules irk is the friction required to get you to think about the inner attitudes required.
Yes, it’s a major attitude shift for us men to proclaim that our cock has mysterious ways that the woman does not and will never control.
I know you personally would hate to have to hold even that attitude. You want to give up the mystery, in favor of communion.
Sorry, but I think that attitude is not strategic, and it doesn’t take into account as much reality as do other attitudes. Stupid, in other words.
on June 1, 2010 at 4:29 pmPhillyBoy81
You should write a post on SATC2.
on June 1, 2010 at 4:30 pmj r
that is an interesting articlle that roosh posted a link to. it seems that some pressure group or special interest is always making the case for this or that looming specter that threatens to do away with us all. and the powers that be are always receptive to using that message as a means of excercising more and more control over the populace.
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