Whoa…calm down crazy.
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He’ll take that olive branch because he gets to stop feeling all that social pressure, and now you’re bros.
This is REALLY powerful. You would be surprised how many people, guys, girls, hot girls, tough MMA type guys, etc. will cave to social pressure and how much power you have when you can consciously wield that social pressure. It’s fascinating.
“Me: Whoa…calm down crazy.”
haha a good response to neutralize her shit. You’re basically still leading the conversation like “calm your tits woman, we’re all just talking here, it’s fine.” and re-enforcing your frame that what you’re doing isn’t weird.
But it doesn’t quite win her over:
“5.5 was annoyed”
Because there’s no olive branch and you don’t give her an excuse for her actions that she can latch onto to keep the “I’m not a shitty human being who acted badly earlier” frame in her mind. Know what I mean? This is a really subtle thing but really important when it comes to running group theory game which is something you’re going to be doing a lot of, so if it doesn’t make complete sense, let me know and I can try to elaborate further.
Notice in my other post I mentioned that for a short guy, it’s better for you to be approaching groups with hot girls in them, because you get a chance to demonstrate your value, THEN you can zero in on a target and escalate from there. Being short, you’re approaching with a deficit of value in their stereotypical view of the world, so if you go direct you don’t get a chance to demonstrate how awesome you are…but when you jump into the gladiator ring and go head to head with some lions (aka shit-tests, her bitchy friends, etc.) and come out victorious, NOW you have high-value.
Imagine if, at this point, a hot shooter girl you always flirt with, comes over and grabs you and flirts with you. What would THAT do to the dynamics of this group where you’ve won them over and shown enough value for the 7 and 7.5 to approve of you and you know the 7 is a little bit interested (there’s a spark there, as evidenced by her throwing you a sword earlier, and her asking your name before she goes later)? Then imagine your buddy brings you a beer, because you’re so pimp that your buddies supplicate to you? Then imagine the manager of the bar goes “Scray!! What’s up man! Hey girls, watch out for this guy, he’s trouble! ;) ” and buys the table a round of shots.
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Online Dating Isn’t Desperation
Changing Your Dating Approach
Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever
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Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby
The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment
How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray
He’ll take that olive branch because he gets to stop feeling all that social pressure, and now you’re bros.
This is REALLY powerful. You would be surprised how many people, guys, girls, hot girls, tough MMA type guys, etc. will cave to social pressure and how much power you have when you can consciously wield that social pressure. It’s fascinating.
“Me: Whoa…calm down crazy.”
haha a good response to neutralize her shit. You’re basically still leading the conversation like “calm your tits woman, we’re all just talking here, it’s fine.” and re-enforcing your frame that what you’re doing isn’t weird.
But it doesn’t quite win her over:
“5.5 was annoyed”
Because there’s no olive branch and you don’t give her an excuse for her actions that she can latch onto to keep the “I’m not a shitty human being who acted badly earlier” frame in her mind. Know what I mean? This is a really subtle thing but really important when it comes to running group theory game which is something you’re going to be doing a lot of, so if it doesn’t make complete sense, let me know and I can try to elaborate further.
Notice in my other post I mentioned that for a short guy, it’s better for you to be approaching groups with hot girls in them, because you get a chance to demonstrate your value, THEN you can zero in on a target and escalate from there. Being short, you’re approaching with a deficit of value in their stereotypical view of the world, so if you go direct you don’t get a chance to demonstrate how awesome you are…but when you jump into the gladiator ring and go head to head with some lions (aka shit-tests, her bitchy friends, etc.) and come out victorious, NOW you have high-value.
Imagine if, at this point, a hot shooter girl you always flirt with, comes over and grabs you and flirts with you. What would THAT do to the dynamics of this group where you’ve won them over and shown enough value for the 7 and 7.5 to approve of you and you know the 7 is a little bit interested (there’s a spark there, as evidenced by her throwing you a sword earlier, and her asking your name before she goes later)? Then imagine your buddy brings you a beer, because you’re so pimp that your buddies supplicate to you? Then imagine the manager of the bar goes “Scray!! What’s up man! Hey girls, watch out for this guy, he’s trouble! ;) ” and buys the table a round of shots.
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