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It\u2019s like sending your child off to kindergarten.\n\nReply\n\n711Liz April 28, 2011 at 12:57 pm\nLOL. Ahh. I was always like this! i just been locked up like Miss Sofia.\n\n*fills up plate like a newly free Miss Sofia*\nToo much racket goin on around here in dis blog, pass me them peas here!\n\nReply\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-03","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-03","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"BeingNiceDoesnTHaveToKillYourGameADa","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-03 16:50:05","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-03 16:50:05","user":"74.7.242.23","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-03\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-03\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022BeingNiceDoesnTHaveToKillYourGameADa\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-03 16:50:05\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-03 16:50:05\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?BeingNiceDoesnTHaveToKillYourGameADa"},"DigitalLoveNavigatingTheModernWorldOfOn":{"bf_titre":"Digital Love: Navigating the Modern World of Online Dating","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/www.open.edu\/openlearncreate\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Devolution Black Marriage Negotiations: Here\u2019s What They Think About You]]\n[[https:\/\/help.elearning.ext.coe.int\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=When%20Beauty%20Leads%20to%20Bad%20Choices%20in%20Dating When Beauty Leads To Bad Choices In Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/learning.envirn.org\/blog\/index.php?entryid=4 The One Topic Men And Women Never Agree On]]\n[[https:\/\/elearning.ich.no\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Hard%20To%20Master%20Skills%20Every%20Single%20Man%20Must%20Posses Hard To Master Skills Every Single Man Must Posses]]\n[[https:\/\/virtual.uas.edu.mx\/sur\/ceim\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Why%20Vague%20Dating%20Requirements%20Are%20Keeping%20You%20Single Why Vague Dating Requirements Are Keeping You Single]]\n[[https:\/\/virtual-moodle.unne.edu.ar\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=5%20Things%20Women%20Do%20That%20Men%20Just%20Don%E2%80%99t%20Do 5 Things Women Do That Men Just Don\u2019t Do]]\n[[https:\/\/vle.tpp.ac.nz\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=What%20Men%20Actually%20Care%20About%20in%20Dating What Men Actually Care About in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/vsn.moodle-nds.de\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=6%20Little%20Known%20Things%20Single%20Men%20Really%20Care%20About 6 Little Known Things Single Men Really Care About]]\n[[https:\/\/wast.onclick.co.uk\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=How%20Your%20%E2%80%9CLook%E2%80%9D%20Affects%20Your%20Luck%20In%20Dating How Your \u201cLook\u201d Affects Your Luck In Dating]]\n\n730Green Afro Diva April 28, 2011 at 10:59 am\nI can\u2019t shake number #2 neither. Especially if it was a real good movie and I get excited and watch it again\n\nReply\n\n731Cheekie April 28, 2011 at 11:28 am\nYou bite cheeks, huh? Well, rawr.\n\nReply\n\n732Cheekie April 28, 2011 at 12:46 pm\nOh, forgot to mention that I can\u2019t just sit down and talk on the phone either. Definitely a phone-walker. In fact, I have to do other things while on the phone\u2026 can\u2019t just talk on the phone.\n\nThis is why I feel like a slave when I\u2019m talking on this bound-by-cord phone at work. Then again, I feel like a slave at work anyway. Naturally. No Alise.\n\nReply\n\n733DQ April 28, 2011 at 12:46 pm\nLOL @ your rawr. And I\u2019ve never gotten any complaints for biting them.\n\n#takeThat\n#takeThat\n#noDiddy\n\nReply\n\n734Sea Jay Bee April 28, 2011 at 12:15 pm\nI do #3 at work\u2026a lot\u2026my co-workers are cool with it because they do it also. We have an open area between pods dedicated to phone pacing.\n\nReply\n\n735Carter April 28, 2011 at 2:27 pm\nHeeyy, I bite my cheeks too!\n\nKnowing that there are others out there that bite their cheeks just made me feel better about it. I usually try not to do it around other people.\n\nReply\n\n736MadScientist7 April 28, 2011 at 1:08 am\nhabits i can\u2019t shake?\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-10-04","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2024-10-04","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"DigitalLoveNavigatingTheModernWorldOfOn","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-04 16:34:03","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-04 16:34:03","user":"74.7.227.23","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-10-04\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222024-10-04\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022DigitalLoveNavigatingTheModernWorldOfOn\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-04 16:34:03\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-04 16:34:03\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?DigitalLoveNavigatingTheModernWorldOfOn"},"SearchingForLoveInADigitalWorldAreWeL":{"bf_titre":"Searching for Love in a Digital World: Are We Losing the Personal Touch?","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/akuttportalen.no\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=S%C3%B8k%20og%20redningsoppdrag 8 Things Commonly Assumed To Be Black That Ain\u2019t Really]]\n[[https:\/\/www.anglokom.org\/tag\/index.php?tag=the%20truth%20about%20men The Truth About Men]]\n[[https:\/\/www.aulaccr.cat\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Black%20Culture%20Decoded Black Culture Decoded]]\n[[https:\/\/www.blsjapan.info\/moodle\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Signs%20That%20You%20Might%20Not%20Be%20Compatible Signs That You Might Not Be Compatible]]\n[[https:\/\/www.cenforma.net\/moodle\/tag\/index.php?tag=relationship%20rules Relationship Rules]]\n[[https:\/\/www.childrensmedicaleducation.org\/nurses\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Jobs%20Most%20Likely%20To%20Lead%20to%20Hanky%20Panky%20On%20The%20Job Jobs Most Likely To Lead to Hanky Panky On The Job]]\n[[https:\/\/www.egmdss.com\/gmdss-courses\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Movies%20That%20Will%20End%20Your%20Half-Assed%20Relationship Movies That Will End Your Half-Assed Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/www.fac.org.ar\/moodle\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Reasons%20Why%20He%E2%80%99s%20With%20a%20White%20Woman Reasons Why He\u2019s With a White Woman]]\n\n148Panama Jackson July 18, 2011 at 11:23 am\nreal talk\u2026a running joke amongst my boys is that if a chick says she loves our eyes, she\u2019s trying to hit. lol.\n\ncuz i be in the mirror and i see them sh*ts\u2026THEY\u2019S JUST EYES SON!!!!! you just want my doggystyle!!!! you ain\u2019t gotsta lie.\n\nReply\n\n149keisha brown July 18, 2011 at 12:22 pm\nquits PJ for life.\n(or until tomorrow.)\n\nReply\n\n150DG July 18, 2011 at 1:26 am\nI\u2019ve read that the best thing you can say to a man is \u201cI\u2019m proud of you.\u201d\n\nThat\u2019s something I\u2019d expect to hear from my parents\/elders than a woman I\u2019m dating\u2026.just sounds a bit too matronly for me. As far as compliments go, I don\u2019t necessarily take them too well\u2026.but one of the most flattering compliments I received came from a woman who came up to me while I was eating and asked me how old I was (late 20\u2032s at the time)\u2026.after I told her, she looked kinda disappointed as she mumbled \u201cso young\u201d under her breath\u2026.then simply said \u201csuch a good looking guy\u201d, and then walked away. The directness of it all caught me off guard, but I told her thank you\u2026if it wasn\u2019t for this dark skin and the presence of testicles, I\u2019m sure I would\u2019ve blushed a lil\u2019.\n\nReply\n\n151nillalatte July 18, 2011 at 1:54 am\nLOL\u2026 that\u2019s cute. Yeah, I kind of thought the same when I read it, but I was like, \u201creally?\u201d I\u2019d much rather say to a man that I was happy or excited for him for whatever reason to share in his joy.\n\nReply\n\n152keisha brown July 18, 2011 at 12:27 pm\nif it wasn\u2019t for this dark skin and the presence of testicles, I\u2019m sure I would\u2019ve blushed a lil\u2019.\n\nCTFU!!!\nStop it!\n\nReply\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-07","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-07","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SearchingForLoveInADigitalWorldAreWeL","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-07 17:10:06","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-07 17:10:06","user":"74.7.227.23","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-07\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-07\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SearchingForLoveInADigitalWorldAreWeL\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-07 17:10:06\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-07 17:10:06\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?SearchingForLoveInADigitalWorldAreWeL"},"MenAndRelationshipAbuseWhyTheSilenceIs":{"bf_titre":"Men and Relationship Abuse: Why the Silence is Deafening","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/www.jogrid.net\/wi\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=5%20Signs%20That%20You%20Just%20Might%20Have%20To%20Marry%20Her%20Ass 5 Signs That You Just Might Have To Marry Her Ass]]\n[[https:\/\/learning38.hcc.edu.gr\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=%E3%80%822000%20%E5%B9%B4%E3%81%AB%20Deckers%20%E3%82%AA%E3%83%97%E3%83%A9%E3%82%A6%E3%82%A3%E3%83%B3%20%E3%83%95%E3%83%AA%E3%83%BC%E3%80%81U%20%E3%81%AE%E5%A5%B3%E7%8E%8B%E3%81%AB%20%E3%82%B7%E3%83%A3%E3%83%8D%E3%83%AB%20%E8%B2%A1%E5%B8%83%E3%81%AE%E3%83%9A%E3%82%A2%E3%82%92%E5%AF%84%E4%BB%98%E5%BD%BC%E3%82%89 Things You Should Never Say To a Black Woman.]]\n[[https:\/\/www.malvesia.es\/campus\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Male%20Solutions%20To%20Common%20Women%20Problems Male Solutions To Common Women Problems]]\n[[https:\/\/www.fatelaonline.org\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Things%20I%20Just%20Don%E2%80%99t%20Get%20About%20Women Things I Just Don\u2019t Get About Women]]\n[[https:\/\/www.fbioyf.unr.edu.ar\/evirtual\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Love%20You%20For%20Free%20%28Or%20Something%20Like%20It%29 Valentine\u2019s Day Date Options That Won\u2019t Cost You A Fortune]]\n[[https:\/\/www.fbioyf.unr.edu.ar\/evirtual\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Things%20That%20You%20Just%20Shouldn%E2%80%99t%20Do%20While%20Dating Things That You Just Shouldn\u2019t Do While Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/www.ikasten.ikasbil.eus\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Valentine%E2%80%99s%20Day Valentine\u2019s Day Alternatives for Those Without Plans Or People To Plan Stuff With]]\n[[https:\/\/www.larweb.se\/moodle\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Why%20Your%20%E2%80%9CNumber%E2%80%9D%20Matters%20So%20Much%20Yo%20Us Why Your \u201cNumber\u201d Matters So Much Yo Us]]\n[[https:\/\/www.luyenthitiengnhat.edu.vn\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=They%20Are%20Cheating%20On%20You%20With%20A%20Friend%20Of%20Yours They Are Cheating On You With A Friend Of Yours]]\n\n\nReply\n\n257Imani July 18, 2011 at 3:07 am\nThis really got me thinking. So i\u2019ve only given like 2 or 3 comments to any guy i have ever dated but weirdly enough i find it totally easy to give compliments to random strangers. I just approached this guy in the bus like 2 days ago \u0026amp; told him how totally hot i thought he was \u0026amp; walked off. That\u2019s all i wanted to say but he follows me \u0026amp; asks for my number which i decline to give, sometimes a compliment is just that\u2026a compliment. Say thanks \u0026amp; keep it moving, i don\u2019t necessarily want to get in your pants.\n\nReply\n\n258YouHadMeAtHello July 18, 2011 at 5:13 am\nThis happens to me ALL the time!\n\nReply\n\n259YouHadMeAtHello July 18, 2011 at 5:14 am\nThis happens to me ALL the time\u2026some people just don\u2019t get it! SMH\n\nReply\n\n260YouHadMeAtHello July 18, 2011 at 5:17 am\nThis happens to me ALL the time\u2026some people just don\u2019t get it! SMH\n\nP.S: I just read the profile (Jenesis Magazine)\u2026I\u2019m just so proud of you guys! Turning this to a show would be AWESOME!!! Can\u2019t wait!\n\nReply\n\n261YouHadMeAtHello July 18, 2011 at 11:48 am\n^\u201dUuh, did I do that?\u201d (Frank spencer\u2019s voice)\n\nMy bad! Blame it on bad network\n\nReply\n\n262DanceHallKing July 18, 2011 at 9:24 am\nMore proof that women like to torture men.\n\nReply\n\n263keisha brown July 18, 2011 at 12:52 pm\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-08","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-08","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"MenAndRelationshipAbuseWhyTheSilenceIs","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-08 14:42:28","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-08 14:42:28","user":"74.7.227.174","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-08\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-08\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022MenAndRelationshipAbuseWhyTheSilenceIs\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-08 14:42:28\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-08 14:42:28\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?MenAndRelationshipAbuseWhyTheSilenceIs"},"FromCreepersToRomeosHowToKeepUnwantedG":{"bf_titre":"From Creepers to Romeos: How to Keep Unwanted Guys at Bay","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/orientamento.elearning.unipd.it\/orientamento\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Things%20Every%20Grown%20Black%20Man%20Needs%20In%20His%20Life Things Every Grown Black Man Needs In His Life]]\n[[https:\/\/gfarias.com\/campus\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=The%20Black%20Dating%20Game The Black Dating Game]]\n[[https:\/\/moodle.univ-tln.fr\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=How%20To%20Stop%20%E2%80%9CThat%E2%80%9D%20Dude%20From%20Trying%20To%20Talk%20To%20You How To Stop \u201cThat\u201d Dude From Trying To Talk To You]]\n[[https:\/\/ead.pge.rs.gov.br\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=10%20Most%20Common%20Lies%20People%20Tell%20in%20A%20Relationship 10 Most Common Lies People Tell in A Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/akademijazakme.edu.rs\/tag\/index.php?tag=pravnici I\u2019ll Be Your Pappy: The Silence of the Daddy Issues]]\n[[https:\/\/aci.moodlesite.pukunui.net\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Three%20Underrated%20Relationship%20Benchmarks Three Underrated Relationship Benchmarks]]\n[[https:\/\/ws089.juntadeandalucia.es\/moodle\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Why%20Successful%20Men%20Don%E2%80%99t%20Want%20To%20Put%20A%20Ring%20On%20it Why Successful Men Don\u2019t Want To Put A Ring On it]]\n[[https:\/\/educaciodigital.cat\/cfanougirona\/moodle\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Annoying%20Things%20Women%20Only%20Do%20If%20They%E2%80%99re%20Into%20You Annoying Things Women Only Do If They\u2019re Into You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Njnm1F How Every Single Young Woman Can Improve Her Luck]]\n\nThis is very discouraging when you find out weeks, months, our years later. So, when you get what seems like such an obvious message from someone you find attractive, you would be incredibly stupid not to follow up. Also, it stimulates the rewards centers of the brain. You have managed to do something that caused a random woman to express her approval and likely attraction.\n\nAnd everyone knows that reward center stimulating actions are actions that get repeated. Unlike snorting coke, there isn\u2019t always an easy link between what you did and why she gave the reward. After all, you wear those shoes or clothes or cologne regularly. That\u2019s why you women sometimes end up with weird responses from guys. They have incorrectly isolated the behavior that they think leads to the reward.\n\nReply\n\n413WIP July 18, 2011 at 2:30 pm\n\u201cThat\u2019s why you women sometimes end up with weird responses from guys. They have incorrectly isolated the behavior that they think leads to the reward.\u201d\n\nLOL, so dude has been spending money on expensive jackets and and has to totally reevaluate his game when he\u2019s complimented on his gorgeous eyebrows.\n\nReply\n\n414Sweet Sass July 18, 2011 at 1:56 pm\nI compliment men for giggles sometimes. I do agree most of them don\u2019t know what to do. That can take the fun out of it.\n\nReply\n\n415Around the Way Girl July 18, 2011 at 2:35 pm\nI\u2019m a little late, but hopefully people are still commenting. I have a question for the ladies\u2026\n\nWhen you compliment another woman, do you expect her to compliment you back? And if she doesn\u2019t, do you find her rude\/b!tchy? I ask because I get lots of compliments from women, and while I do give genuine compliments when there is something especially compliment-worthy about a person, I think it\u2019s disengenuous to compliment someone just because they complimented you. So, in the moment, I usually just smile and say thank you. But sometimes I get the feeling the complimenter might be a little miffed that I didn\u2019t say something nice back. Feedback?\n\nReply\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-09","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-09","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FromCreepersToRomeosHowToKeepUnwantedG","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-09 17:36:51","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-09 17:36:51","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-09\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-09\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FromCreepersToRomeosHowToKeepUnwantedG\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-09 17:36:51\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-09 17:36:51\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?FromCreepersToRomeosHowToKeepUnwantedG"},"FromOnlineMatchToFirstDateTransitioning":{"bf_titre":"From Online Match to First Date: Transitioning Smoothly","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/aerodidact.enm-toulouse.fr\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=A%20Simpler%20Guide%20to%20Single%20Men A Simpler Guide to Single Men]]\n[[https:\/\/www.cmsstartpagina.nl\/blog\/lifestyle\/top-10-signs-he-is-cheating-on-you\/ Top 10 Signs He Is Cheating On You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XYL2NT Check Out Girls Without Getting Caught]]\n[[https:\/\/www.edu.xunta.gal\/centros\/eoicoruna\/aulavirtual\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=10%20Steps%20to%20Get%20Over%20Your%20Ex 10 Steps to Get Over Your Ex]]\n[[https:\/\/moodlesinae.presidencia.gub.uy\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=How%20To%3A%20Forget%20Your%20Dating%20Check%20List How To: Forget Your Dating Check List]]\n[[https:\/\/community.e3seriescenters.com\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=A%20Female%20Player%27s%20Strategy%3A%20The%20Preemptive%20Strike A Female Player\u0027s Strategy: The Preemptive Strike]]\n[[https:\/\/eworks102.trainingvc.com.au\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=It%27s%20Okay%20To%20Be%20Needy It\u0027s Okay To Be Needy]]\n[[https:\/\/elearning.unito.it\/psych\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=How%20I%20Moved%20On%20From%20My%20Divorce Why Klutzy Women Are Attractive]]\n[[https:\/\/moodlesinae.presidencia.gub.uy\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=How%20Being%20A%20Bitch%20Can%20Save%20Your%20Love%20Life How Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life]]\n[[https:\/\/academia.ingeniocreativo.mx\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Men%20Play%20Dating%20Games%20Too Men Play Dating Games Too]]\n\n\nGiven the time-frame suggested, I don\u2019t completely disagree with the post. I think my overall criticism would be that the situational examples start to resemble a rule book, and they imply that by conducting one\u2019s outward behavior in the right way, you can become or at least resemble an alpha. This may be true for very good actors, but I think it misses the point: alphaness is an internal quality. An alpha can look into his girlfriend\u2019s eyes and say the sappiest shit and he\u2019s still alpha. And the opposite is also true: a beta can recite the correct answer with the perfect delivery and he\u2019s still a beta in her eyes.\n\nThese posts place too much emphasis on the verbal, which is probably because blogs are verbal mediums, and this obscures the fact that alphaness is primarily non-verbal and status-based. Who you are, how you look, how you hold yourself and how you talk go much further in the girl\u2019s evaluation of you than what you say. I don\u2019t envy the editor\u2019s difficult job of trying to explain non-verbal alphaness using a verbal medium. My only suggestion would be that instead of emphasizing verbal word-play with the gal, more guys would be better served by working out, eating right, intellectually challenging themselves\u2026basically by improving themselves for its own-sake. And in fairness to the editor, he has suggested these things in prior posts.\n\n\non June 1, 2010 at 4:27 pmxsplat\nSidewinder, I can see you are trying to be balanced, and I understand your aversion to the rule book mentality.\n\nHowever the fact that certain rules irk is the friction required to get you to think about the inner attitudes required.\n\nYes, it\u2019s a major attitude shift for us men to proclaim that our cock has mysterious ways that the woman does not and will never control.\n\nI know you personally would hate to have to hold even that attitude. You want to give up the mystery, in favor of communion.\n\nSorry, but I think that attitude is not strategic, and it doesn\u2019t take into account as much reality as do other attitudes. Stupid, in other words.\n\n\non June 1, 2010 at 4:29 pmPhillyBoy81\nYou should write a post on SATC2.\n\n\non June 1, 2010 at 4:30 pmj r\nthat is an interesting articlle that roosh posted a link to. it seems that some pressure group or special interest is always making the case for this or that looming specter that threatens to do away with us all. and the powers that be are always receptive to using that message as a means of excercising more and more control over the populace.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-11","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-11","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FromOnlineMatchToFirstDateTransitioning","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-11 14:32:21","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-11 14:32:21","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-11\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-11\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FromOnlineMatchToFirstDateTransitioning\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-11 14:32:21\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-11 14:32:21\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?FromOnlineMatchToFirstDateTransitioning"},"HowToHandleAnxietyInOnlineDatingConfide":{"bf_titre":"How to Handle Anxiety in Online Dating: Confidence-Building Strategies","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ZXkDCH What Do Women REALLY Want?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f1GInL The Top 10 Natural PUA Film Characters]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YklQCF Relax Dude I Am Not Swinging From Your Nuts]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eYzb9k How To Survive Dating a \u2018Walking Smoker\u2019]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eG22j0 Setting Yourself Apart From the Herd]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ZXkH5p The Best Reasons to Withhold Your Cakes]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ZXkHSX He Finally Has Me And Now He\u2019s Bored?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3zJmTms 12 Things Dull People Do That Make Them Boring]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f4a9FZ The Independent Single Woman: Self-Satisfaction]]\n\n\nOctober 29, 2009 11:30:00 PM EST\nAnonymous said...\nDamn your like the only black guru that\u0027s doing something for us brothas, and that is not retired from the game like others.. You know what your talking about, whether your dropping knowledge about game or how to act, you definitely know your shit... And thats from your methods alone.. To add, I check this blog everyday just to read about something you did, because I know its either funny or plain brilliance.. You inspire me to really become successful with women, and I hope that you can keep this blog online. There\u0027s more game advice in this blog, then what Pua\u0027s gurus even sell... thanks for the knowledge you\u0027ve contributed\n\nOctober 29, 2009 11:31:00 PM EST\nAnonymous said...\nI\u0027ll be sorry to see this go. It\u0027s the only blog of it\u0027s kind that makes sense in the real world. Not the fantasy bullshit that the majority of people write. There is a lot of truth in this stuff;some it uncomfortable but it\u0027s changed my life and the way I look at things. For the better.\n\nOctober 30, 2009 8:18:00 PM EST\nLee Coles said...\nYeah, that time does come, and everyone knows when it arrives. I\u0027ve always appreciated the insight, and sort of regarded you as my little (albeit tall) brother. You were and are The Man.\n\nOctober 31, 2009 1:54:00 PM EST\nAnonymous said...\nDo what you gotta do. But dude, don\u0027t close this site down; this place has tangibly altered people\u0027s lives - including mine.\n\nI don\u0027t think I could ever fully articulate the appreciation that I and many others share for the stuff you\u0027ve done - so I\u0027ll just say thanks for all the great posts.\n\nOctober 31, 2009 6:00:00 PM EST\nAnonymous said...\nNO, freaking way !!! I hope this is just an early retirement, like Jay-Z and Michael Jordan.\n\nPlease re-consider\n\nNovember 1, 2009 8:53:00 AM EST\nAnonymous said...\nAssanova,\n\nYou are the man. We all appreciate what you\u0027ve done. You are a pioneer in your own way and style, and you call other\u0027s out on their bullshit and don\u0027t deal with the hipocrisy that has become known as the pickup community. You recognize those that have real ability\/talent and those that don\u0027t. You have great writing talent and you are charismatic in your works. My recommendation: Keep the site up because you don\u0027t want to lose out on years of your own archives\/memories...and do a post quarterly\/bi yearly\/ or at least yearly to keep in touch with those of us that have truly benefitted from you.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-11","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-11","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"HowToHandleAnxietyInOnlineDatingConfide","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-11 11:30:37","statut_fiche":"1","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-12 10:15:47","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-11\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-11\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022HowToHandleAnxietyInOnlineDatingConfide\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-11 11:30:37\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-12 10:15:47\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?HowToHandleAnxietyInOnlineDatingConfide"},"ForbiddenRomanceShouldFriendsDateYourSib":{"bf_titre":"Forbidden Romance: Should Friends Date Your Sibling?","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BFQf5M Five Subtle Signs That He Ain\u0027t Bad]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/489iDcn Do You Expect Your Partner To Cheat?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eNP1Eg 10 Reasons Why You Will Not Get A Call Back]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3zOZeky Why I Never Will Date A White Woman]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eG8jeE Tiger Woods Elin Nordegren And Golfgate]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h1qih5 The Five Worst Times To Approach A Black Woman]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h2CAWt Why Won\u2019T You Let Me Be Great?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eLj4MO What men usually hear when women are talking to us]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BFQdea Bedroom Tactics Gone Bad: 5 Things You Really Should Ask About.]]\n\nI completely feel for you and the situation you are going through. I understand your frustration about the guy friend and your feeling that your girlfriend is not helping enough around the house. From the information you gave me, you work about 55ish hours? She works about 54ish hours? Is that correct? I think that is the first big issue. You both work too many hours. There are 168 hours in a week. If you minus sleeping time, (about 8 hours a night) that leaves you with 112 hours. Lets minus work time= 57 hours. Let\u2019s account for an hour commute a day- to work, groceries, errands etc (time in the car)= 50 hours. Let\u2019s deduct 3 hours a day to eat and prepare food (3 meals)=21 hours left. That leaves you about 3 hours a day give or take with free time\u2026 and that\u2019s probably going to be eaten up easily with chores, spending time with your daughter, bills, tv or internet time etc\u2026\n\nThe big thing is that you both don\u2019t have margin in your life. Without that time for your relationship, time specifically set aside each day to be together, communicate, enjoy each other\u2019s company, even just do nothing together, what do you really have but a life that\u2019s all work and no play? With three hours left each day (give or take), is it no wonder that she wants to spend that time not cleaning house?\n\nI know this is a crazy idea, but if there is any way you can downsize your life, lessen your monthly bills and rent\/mortgage, pay down any debt you may have\u2026 so that you guys can free up time in your life to dedicate to your relationship, you will both be happier. I\u2019m a big believer in the one income household, with the wife only having the option to work. Then she can be the queen of your home, raise your daughter, manage the affairs of your household. If you both love your jobs and cannot conceive of this kind of world, is there any way to reduce the amount of time you spend at work to devote to your family? How would she feel about these possibilities?\n\nAll I am saying is that the answer to your situation is not going to be easy. It\u2019s going to take a drastic lifestyle change. why? Because you cannot create more time in a day. You cannot conjur up more energy than what your body has. You are both depleting your energies by allowing work to dominate your time.\n\nIn regards to the \u201cguy friend:\u201d I don\u2019t believe it is wise for women in committed relationships to have these guy best friend types. There is always a flirtatious element in male and female friendships especially if both find the other attractive. There is nothing you can do about this. Nonetheless, as the man in the relationship who is affected by this close friendship, forcing her to stop texting this man or stop hanging out with this man will take away her freedom, and the natural response to having your liberties taken away is for you to number 1: rebel or number 2: desire more that which has been labeled as prohibited.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-15","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-15","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ForbiddenRomanceShouldFriendsDateYourSib","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-15 16:57:13","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-15 16:57:14","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-15\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-15\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ForbiddenRomanceShouldFriendsDateYourSib\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-15 16:57:13\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-15 16:57:14\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?ForbiddenRomanceShouldFriendsDateYourSib"},"BreakingUpWithGraceOnlineDatingRulesFor":{"bf_titre":"Breaking Up with Grace: Online Dating Rules for the Perfect Goodbye","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h6fmi3 Paranoia and Relationships: How Far Is Too Far?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h7JWIo Love Without A Limit?!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YlRsbc I Got That White Girl: The Hampton Edition.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BKWiG8 Behind the Macho Mask]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f6EvHB Witty Wisdom For Dating Mating And Crime-Fighting]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h7K2je The Cruelest Things Women Consistently Do To Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YlRwHY Dating Do\u2019s And Dont\u2019s For \u201cNice\u201d Guys And Girls]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h7cAJx Closure And The Big Owe.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h9iqtR The Most Overrated Things About New York City]]\n\nBut in all this wisdom naturally acquired, what about my newly discovered drunken English skills? Well, yesterday was midterms for me and I\u2019m sorry to say but I failed. I did pretty well in pronunciation I think. No spit, no mumbling, not too many blanks looking for words. But the problem is this: I was so focused on it that I forgot the other half of the evaluation, content. I doubt that anyone has been impressed to know about killdeers, the Mono Lake or even how having Rock Band should be in the top 10 qualities for a guy. [...]\n\nDrunken english 101 - midterm report | (Entre 2) Says:\nJanuary 16th, 2009 at 12:54 pm\n[...] But in all this wisdom naturally acquired, what about my newly discovered drunken English skills? Well, yesterday was midterms for me and I\u2019m sorry to say but I failed. I did pretty well in pronunciation I think. No spit, no mumbling, not too many blanks looking for words. But the problem is this: I was so focused on it that I forgot the other half of the evaluation, content. I doubt that anyone has been impressed to know about killdeers, the Mono Lake or even how having Rock Band should be in the top 10 qualities for a guy. [...]\n\nhunter Says:\nMarch 21st, 2009 at 1:59 am\n\u201cThe Notebook\u201d is a movie out of Hollywood where life is sometimes portrayed how it should be. Given, that, over 65% of the population is\/or in need of therapy sessions, the average man cannot afford to be constantly arguing and making up. Most likely, he grew up hearing his parents complain\/argue at each other(this is why he sits in therapy sessions) and the last thing he wants to do is come home and argue with the woman he is in love with. Men are strong physically, but a woman can be super strong on the inside.\n\nHurt your feelings? Are you sure you want a man\/husband that hurts your feelings?..That may be fun for a little while\u2026\n\nhunter Says:\nMarch 22nd, 2009 at 10:48 pm\nThere is a \u201cnotebook\u201d type of man out there, it is just that, I think, in a much smaller pool of single men.\n\nPaul Says:\nAugust 21st, 2009 at 8:20 am\nIt\u2019s a freaking movie people. Get out of your fantasy world and welcome yourselves back to reality. If you want that kind of love, become an actor\/actress because you\u2019re not going to find it in the real world. It\u2019s scripted.\n\nMidoriLei Says:\nAugust 21st, 2009 at 8:39 am\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-16","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-16","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"BreakingUpWithGraceOnlineDatingRulesFor","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-16 17:54:01","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-16 17:54:01","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-16\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-16\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022BreakingUpWithGraceOnlineDatingRulesFor\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-16 17:54:01\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-16 17:54:01\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?BreakingUpWithGraceOnlineDatingRulesFor"},"FemalePowerFourReasonsForWorldRuleAndO":{"bf_titre":"Female Power: Four Reasons for World Rule and One PR Disaster","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f3sCSY Breaking up with someone you still actually like]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BK9UkW First Dates You Should Never Take a Black Woman On]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4884FHQ Why Women Should Rule The World]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YalUUb Do\u2019s And Dont\u2019s Of Making a Sex Tape]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/487pdQE Four Reasons Why women Shouldn\u2019t Pursue Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f3LnFH Taking The Lead]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y71J9O Can\u2019t Trust It: 9 Women To Avoid At All \u0421osts]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BJEzih Five Surefire Ways To Scare Her Away]]\n\n@Sister Toldja, that one scene was definitely a stretch. however, i don\u2019t actually think they over did it too much on that end. in fact, i think that was the only scene were they specifically and overtly stated what htey were doing\u2026and i\u2019m guessing its bc TP had no clue how else to write it in.\n\nThe Best Man had a similar scene when all four of them were playing cards and Taye Diggs went out of his way to mention that Morris Chestnutt graduated Summa Cum Laude, etc. And talking about Merch\u2019s lawyer possibilities, etc.\n\nsometimes i think these folks just dont know how create dialogue that isn\u2019t so in your face\u2026but they\u2019ll sacrfice one scene for it.\n\nd\u2019oh well.\n\nReply\n\nRo {June 22nd, 2009 at 12:51 am}\n\n@thismayconcernyou, I\u2019m not going to lie\u2026 Seeing grown up Rudy portray a prostitute\u2026. not believeable to me. The attitude\u2026all that made me giggle.\n\nI\u2019ll stick to the plays\u2026at least there the over acting is accepted.\n\nReply\n\nthismayconcernyou {June 22nd, 2009 at 12:59 am}\n\n@Ro,\n\nGoogle thismayconcernyou and Rudy Huxtable\u2026 this is my hope for Rudy. Not the crackwhorish prostitution. lol.\n\nReply\n\nPanama Jackson {June 22nd, 2009 at 9:52 am}\n\n@Ro, you know what made it unbelievable to me?\n\nthem hoez were SO dirty. in ATL, most of our hoez look way cleaner then that. I mean the wigs were terrible. back in the day, on Stewart Ave (or more recently Metropolitan) the tricks looked pretty well put together. I mean ATL is a pretty chick city, the competition is steep. you cant\u2019 just show up looking like a dirty yamp. You got to be nice and clean lookin\u2019.\n\nplus, she looked dirty as hell but had the best set of pearly whites you ever did see.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-17","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-17","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FemalePowerFourReasonsForWorldRuleAndO","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-17 16:30:53","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-17 16:30:53","user":"74.7.242.19","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-17\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-17\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FemalePowerFourReasonsForWorldRuleAndO\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-17 16:30:53\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-17 16:30:53\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?FemalePowerFourReasonsForWorldRuleAndO"},"ConfidentFunnyTheProvenPathToAttractin":{"bf_titre":"Confident \u0026amp; Funny: The Proven Path to Attracting Women","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/tribal-tta.indiancountrytraining.net\/training\/tag\/index.php?tag=3%20common%20relationship%20mistakes%20women%20make 3 Common Relationship Mistakes Women Make]]\n[[http:\/\/webtechnology.institute\/moodle27\/tag\/index.php?tag=love%20awkwardness%20and%20regret%3A%20the%20day%20i%20walked%20away Love Awkwardness and Regret: The Day I Walked Away]]\n[[https:\/\/www.fondazionemilano.eu\/moodle\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Lettura Friend Zoned and Heartbroken: Lessons from an Imaginary Romance]]\n[[http:\/\/www.safer-maine.org\/moodle\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=ATV What Every Woman Should Know About a Man\u2019s Code of Honor]]\n[[http:\/\/xenesglosses-prestige.gr\/tag\/index.php?tag=how%20to%20handle%20breakups%20without%20questioning How to Handle Breakups Without Questioning]]\n[[https:\/\/academia.ingeniocreativo.mx\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Attracting%20Women%20with%20Confidence%20and%20Humor Attracting Women with Confidence and Humor]]\n[[https:\/\/academy.seekersguidance.org\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Keep%20Your%20Woman%20Secure%20Without%20Fighting Keep Your Woman Secure Without Fighting]]\n[[https:\/\/academia.ingeniocreativo.mx\/tag\/index.php?tc=1\u0026amp;tag=Men%20Play%20Dating%20Games%20Too Men Play Dating Games Too]]\n\n\nArmageddon was many things, terrible or not.\n\nIt was the loudest movie ever made.\n\nIt let Affleck stretch his acting chops and cry without Matt Damon by his side, leading to such great performances as his in \u201cPaycheck\u201d.\n\nBear pulled down tiger-striped bikini briefs and did a lil dance on top of a gurney, then cried like a baby during psychological testing. What is it with these big arse dudes being mildy (if not FLAMBOYANTLY) homo in movies?\n\nThat Russian Guy cracks me up in every movie he\u2019s in, and it\u2019s ALWAYS the same character\u2026 he\u2019s the Devil, with a russian accent\u2026 He\u2019s a Ex Dealer\u2026 with a russian accent. i love it.\n\nReply\n\nV Renee {June 22nd, 2009 at 9:31 am}\n\n@Shawnta`,\n\nI loved Armageddon too. It was the song that made me love it - Don\u2019t Want to Miss a Thing\n\nReply\n\nNicki Sunshine {June 22nd, 2009 at 10:29 am}\n\n@V Renee, Me too!\n\nReply\n\nCheekie {June 22nd, 2009 at 11:37 am}\n\n@V Renee,\n\nI love Don\u2019t Want to Miss a Thing.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-10-22","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-10-22","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ConfidentFunnyTheProvenPathToAttractin","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-22 17:31:18","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-22 17:31:18","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-10-22\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-10-22\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ConfidentFunnyTheProvenPathToAttractin\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-22 17:31:18\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-22 17:31:18\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?ConfidentFunnyTheProvenPathToAttractin"},"LoveAndLaughterHowToEnjoyOnlineDating":{"bf_titre":"Love and Laughter: How to Enjoy Online Dating","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YyXDst 5 Dumb Reasons People Use to Avoid Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YD9AgY The Six Part Guide To Keeping A Woman Happy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YD6eKM Many Faces of Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YiT4RW The Real Key to a Lasting Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eZ4t04 The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YBx71v Recognizing a Toxic Partner Before It\u2019s Too Late]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YD6f1i Debunking Of Six Commonly Held Relationship Fallacies]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eWVnRH Two Surefire Ways To Ensure Your Happiness]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YAnm3R Dating Mistake That Educated Women Make]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Aby1Zs Living Together Before Marriage Is A Good Idea?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Aekxfl The Secret to Male Happiness]]\n\n\nI know\u2026and it was still entertaining\n\nReply\n\n55pinksghetti { 06.23.09 at 10:00 am }\nSome movies I like but the critics disagree are: \u201cUndercover Brother\u201d that movie was so funny. I like Eddie Griffith he is really funny in an old fashion Sammy Davis Jr mixed with modern comedy. I don\u2019t know who the other person is, lol, it is kind of social commentary and comedy. Another one I liked is \u201cMalibu\u2019s Most Wanted\u201d that movie was also funny and I like the whole plot within a plot (where Taye Diggs and Anthony Anderson were actors pretending to be gangstas, it reminded me of that old Sprite commercials with the two Shakesperean dudes who pretended to be \u201cstreet\u201d). Another movie which gets no love is \u201cB.A.P.S\u201d I know it\u2019s politely incorrect and all but that movie was funny and Halle Berry really showed her acting range with broad comedy.\n\nFirst off, Happy (Day After) Father\u2019s Day to all the father\u2019s of VSB.  Good job.\n\nThis past weekend, I finally saw Tyler Perry\u2019s Madea Goes To Jail.  Now slap me silly and call me Susan, but it seems to me like his movies are getting better.  Granted, Madea Goes To Jail seemed like two movies that they tried to make into one (there were actually times that I forgot I was watching a Madea-focused movie) but I wasn\u2019t appalled at myself after it went off.  And I\u2019ve been mad at myself for watching Tyler Perry movies before.\n\nNow that isn\u2019t to say that it was a great movie or anything, but I found it entertaining enough.  I know that sounds like blasphemy but I\u2019m going to run blasphemy into the ground today so strap up, Sally Ride.\n\nTyler Perry movies serve as a perfect segue into thinking about some movies that actually are much better than they\u2019re given credit for because, well, most of his movies completely suck.  Then again, maybe we\u2019re looking at them wrong, and his movies aren\u2019t the only ones.  You see there are two movies that are way better than they get credit for and today, they\u2019re going to get their due.\n\nAnd what movies are those?\n\nBaby Boy and You Got Served\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-10-25","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-10-25","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"LoveAndLaughterHowToEnjoyOnlineDating","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-25 17:45:17","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-25 17:45:17","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-10-25\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-10-25\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022LoveAndLaughterHowToEnjoyOnlineDating\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-25 17:45:17\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-25 17:45:17\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?LoveAndLaughterHowToEnjoyOnlineDating"},"FriendZoneMythsAndRealitiesWhatYouNeed":{"bf_titre":"Friend Zone Myths and Realities: What You Need to Know","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48nJC4g Three Great Things To Do If Dateless On Valentines Day]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f3mQRG 10 Things I\u2019ve Learned Since Becoming A Daddy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hqeYLy How To Snag A Last Minute Valentine\u2019s Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YGZlrZ 5 Fun Ways to Argue Without Breaking Up]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48lDxW5 6 Signs You\u2019ve Fallen Into The \u201cFriend Zone\u201d]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eXIaIj 6 Signs That A Woman Has Been Friend-Zoned]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YDYxUK A Guide To Avoiding Relationship Fumbles]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hyStEu A Guide to Making New Friends]]\n\nAmerie: Has anybody ever told you that could actually sing before?  No dis, but you generally sound like when it sings it hurts.  In fact, when you sing, I\u2019m often reminded of when I had pneumonia.  That\u2019s it, you sing you like your lungs hurt.  And maybe that sounds good in Alaska\u2026oh there I go judging again.\n\nGov.  Mark Sanford: Did you ACTUALLY think that you were going to get away with skirting to the Argentinian countryside with a woman and telling everybody else that you went hiking or some such other sh*t?  What were you really thinking?  You can tell me, I\u2019m just curious as to the general f*ckery that was going on in your mind.\n\nCiara:  How is that you manage to look like both a little boy and a woman at the exact same time?  Do you do it on purpose?  I\u2019ve always wondered about this, except when you shot the video for \u201cOh\u201d because you looked great in that video.\n\nMarion Barry: Do you have a personal scandal stopwatch or something?  When it counts down to zero you know its time for you to do some other retarded sh*t?  Oh, and how can I get in on this \u201cnever pay taxes but never go to jail\u201d hustle you have going on?\n\nFruit -of-the-Loom Grapes: Do you ever wish you were the apple?\n\nThe Rest of the Jackson 5 (and Randy): Did you all ever honestly assess the fact that if not for Michael, you probably never would have made it out of Gary?\n\nBlackademics: Which death would have been better career wise:  Jay-Z after The Blueprint or Nas after Illmatic?  Jay had more albums at that time but its the point where everybody knew him, but Nas is STILL viable because of Illmatic.  Just wondering.\n\nMr. Big Stuff: Just who do you think you are?\n\nThose are a just a few of the questions that I\u2019d ask celebrities if I were to get the opportunity.  What questions would you ask of celebrities of you could ask them anything under the sun and they were guaranteed to answer?\n\nInquiring minds would like to know.\n\n-VSB P aka THE ARSONIST aka TANGLE JIG P aka GIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIRL, HE A 3\n\nPS \u2013 Don\u2019t forget to vote for us for the Black Weblog Awards (or nominate us\u2026or whatever).  I do believe this is the last week you can vote or nominate or whatever.  We appreciate you taking the time out of your day to do so for the people.  In fact, the people appreciate you.  We, the people.  On some Eagley Eye sh*t.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-10-29","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-10-29","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FriendZoneMythsAndRealitiesWhatYouNeed","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-29 17:41:50","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-29 17:41:51","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-10-29\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-10-29\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FriendZoneMythsAndRealitiesWhatYouNeed\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-29 17:41:50\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-29 17:41:51\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?FriendZoneMythsAndRealitiesWhatYouNeed"},"NavigatingTheDatingWorldWithoutFallingFor":{"bf_titre":"Navigating the Dating World Without Falling for Pitfalls","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48wFcIf Why I Keep Falling for Nurses and Teachers]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48tTFVB Holiday Gifts to Avoid While Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40rBMEG Avoiding Dating Pitfalls with These 8 Mental Trick]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40w4mEO A Look at Hollywood\u2019s Relationship with Black Pain]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48tTLMX Wild Cherry Flags]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48psB9V The Perils of Past Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40neoIs Jealousy: Wasted Energy or Relationship Fuel?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fg9Gkc Master the Science of Getting Dumped with Style!]]\n\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 0 Thumb down 0\ngeographybeefinalisthimself July 21, 2014 at 11:24\n@ Uncle Elmer\n\n\u201cMy Brother\u2019s Keeper\u201d doesn\u2019t do a fucking thing about illegitimacy among blacks or Latinos, so women in those communities will still be paid to have kids out of wedlock and the buck will be passed from those boys\u2019 fathers to unrelated men.\n\nEverybody knows that a man cares more about his sons and daughters than he will about his nieces or nephews (if he has any) or any other man\u2019s kids. I\u2019m not a father and I have no nieces or nephews. I don\u2019t give much of a shit about any other man\u2019s kids either. Why should anyone expect a mentor to give a shit about any of these boys?\n\nIf it is better for a boy to have an involved father in his life, shouldn\u2019t this program do something about that, including punish illegitimacy by their mothers?\nself bold enough to wear, and three pairs of eyeglasses that pretty much look exactly the same. Oh, and a time machine straight to the \u201950s, apparently.\nFeminists believe that all of recorded history is one litany of subjugation of womankind, ended only in recent times by the brave and stalwart feminists, who wrested power from the patriarchy (how they did so is not usually explained). It\u2019s bunk, and people only believe it because they have extremely limited knowledge of history. The idea that women have been disenfranchised is based on such things as the right to vote, which white women gained approximately one century after white men in the United States. However, keep in mind that universal men\u2019s suffrage was only extended to all American men after white American women already had it. American Indians were not granted full suffrage until 1965 \u2014 a full forty years after women\u2019s suffrage, and decades after they had already been declared US citizens. This was almost one hundred years after women had already been granted suffrage in Western states such as (highly patriarchal) Utah.\n\nOf course, for a couple thousand years, almost no ordinary citizens had voting rights in any country.\n\nBut I\u2019d like to address the cultural misconceptions as well. Particularly the idea that women\u2019s lives were filled with drudgery and chores while men did nothing but enjoy themselves. A few posts back, I wrote that husbands have probably always been in involved in helping out around the house and with childcare. Many more men worked out of home before the industrial revolution, so it stands to reason that it would be so. Just yesterday, I found proof from a 17th century painting from the Netherlands.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-10-31","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-10-31","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"NavigatingTheDatingWorldWithoutFallingFor","date_creation_fiche":"2024-10-31 17:50:10","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-10-31 17:50:10","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-10-31\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-10-31\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022NavigatingTheDatingWorldWithoutFallingFor\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-10-31 17:50:10\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-10-31 17:50:10\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?NavigatingTheDatingWorldWithoutFallingFor"},"NightOutEtiquetteDatingInTheNightlifeSc":{"bf_titre":"Night Out Etiquette: Dating in the Nightlife Scene","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CesTEu Things You Should Never Tell Your Dating Partner]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40z86Wa Why Romantic Comedies Might Ruin Your Love Life]]\t\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40zCL5K The Pitfalls of Long-Distance Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3NWo7Ov A Humorous Take on Culture, Fun, and Dating Standards]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cdzm2t Whats In A Name?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fkIhOs The Loveawake Guide to One-Night Stand Etiquette]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fuH1s9 Advice to My Younger Self]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40BwhDx 3 Signs That You Might Be A Bitter Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Aw2YYi Let\u2019s Be Friends.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fenR9H Roses]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3O38Knj Men Temptation and Commitment]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f6fhtv Night Out Etiquette: Nightlife Etiquette Loveawake Style]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3NY9p9U Monogamy for Dummies]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40HbRsC Oh No (S)He Didn\u2019t!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f6fkWd The Dangers of Rating Your Girlfriend]]\n\n\n\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\nNothing new here.\n\nFeminism has always been a wallflower\u2019s movement.\n\nAttractive women don\u2019t consider themselves feminists (but they are) because they have no need for feminism.\n\nWhat woman wants feminism when men treat her like royalty without it?\n\nWallflowers, by contrast, are for feminism because they think that the way we treat pretty girls is something that ALL women are entitled to (it is, in truth, the female equivalent of the male sex entitlement mentality that they complain about).\n\nThe important thing to note is how these young women\u2019s attitudes shift when they start losing their looks.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 32 Thumb down 0\nJim July 21, 2014 at 22:54\n\u201cEven if women are in fact rejecting feminism\u201d\n\nThey\u2019re not really. They have achieved through white knight and mangina politicians and courts SUPERIORITY. That\u2019s why they\u2019re \u201crejecting\u201d it. Give them REAL equality (am impossibility anyway) and they\u2019ll make a mad dash back to feminism. That\u2019s if they\u2019ve actually really left it in the first place.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 29 Thumb down 0\ngreyghost July 21, 2014 at 23:25\nThese are young women. Just as old blue pill men say \u201crespect\u201d women young men (teenagers) are like fuck them bitches and mean it. My job has me in contact with young men and when you talk to them they see things red pill style. Young women are going to pay the price for their mothers and grand mothers. And they know it. The wicked selfishness of women is there and always has been. A \u201cgood\u201d woman is the same nasty bitch filing for the frivorce for the house and kids. It is just a better deal to be nice to the guy. just the way it is and always has been. No woman is virtuous only some behave with virtue so you will think of them as virtuous. Good enough she gets the dick and I\u2019ll fix her car and she can fix dinner and put the clothes in the washing machine.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 21 Thumb down 1\nchinesefootsoldier July 22, 2014 at 00:53\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-11-06","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-11-06","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"NightOutEtiquetteDatingInTheNightlifeSc","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-06 16:50:26","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-06 16:50:26","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-11-06\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-11-06\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022NightOutEtiquetteDatingInTheNightlifeSc\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-06 16:50:26\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-06 16:50:26\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?NightOutEtiquetteDatingInTheNightlifeSc"},"TheGreatDebateShouldWomenMakeTheFirstM":{"bf_titre":"The Great Debate: Should Women Make the First Move in Dating?","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hDsOKz Moments in Dating We\u0027d Wipe Away if We Had the Chance]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40x67lm Lies Damn Lies and Wonderbras.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Azigvx Pole Position]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40Bw1EE The Goggles]]\t\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UGDvm6 Kinky Dating]]\t\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hFWoiA The Art Of The Breakup: 10 No-Nos For The Dumper]]\t\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YW6q84 The Dumpee Survival Guide]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hwN0xX Chick Logic (Or the Lack Thereof)]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UCE8gs Why Women Shouldn\u0027t Make the First Move in Dating]]\n\n\nhttp:\/\/www.zerohedge.com\/news\/2014-07-29\/deadbeat-nation-shocking-77-million-americans-face-debt-collectors\n\nThis represents 35.1 percent of the population. In Nevada the percentage is 46.9 percent. So the reason debt collectors keep calling the wrong person is because it\u2019s rather difficult for any industry to keep track of more than one-third of households (and almost half the households in Nevada).\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 2 Thumb down 1\nMRA August 20, 2014 at 13:12\nThis debt bought me a messy drawer of wedding makeup that I never wear, some shoes that proved too uncomfortable, necklaces I incorrectly deemed myself bold enough to wear, and three pairs of eyeglasses that pretty much look exactly the same.\n\nRight there you can see why companies and federal gov love feminism, the point of men managing money was that men are more careful with it the the spending was limited, when you have women with money and a system extracting money from men to give it to women.\n\nMen produce money, system extract money from men give it to women, women spend money on product they never needed.\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 9 Thumb down 0\nUncle Elmer August 20, 2014 at 13:44\nHere is some more material for you Bill, courtesy of my son Hermann :\n\nhttp:\/\/knowyourmeme.com\/memes\/events\/quinnspiracy\n\nQuinnspiracy refers to the online controversy surrounding indie game developer Zoe Quinn\u2019s alleged affair with a number of video game journalists, including a staff writer at the Gawker-affiliated video game news site Kotaku, supposedly in exchange for publicity for her and her 2014 text-based indie game Depression Quest. In August 2014, the scandal came into public\u2019s light when Eron Gjoni, her now-former boyfriend, chronicled the details of her affairs in an expose blog post, which prompted online discussions regarding the validity of Gjoni\u2019s claim and ethics in video game journalism at large. Due to the scandal\u2019s online amplification in reaction to perceived media suppression, the event has been cited as an example of the \u201cStreisand Effect\u201d.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-11-07","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-11-07","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheGreatDebateShouldWomenMakeTheFirstM","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-07 17:18:22","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-07 17:18:22","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-11-07\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-11-07\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheGreatDebateShouldWomenMakeTheFirstM\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-07 17:18:22\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-07 17:18:22\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?TheGreatDebateShouldWomenMakeTheFirstM"},"EndingItGracefullyHowToHandleABreakupW":{"bf_titre":"Ending It Gracefully: How to Handle a Breakup With Care","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ekyN4l Why Sharing Passwords With Your Partner]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UHLW0j How To Tell If A Man Is Interested In You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CjpS5M Do\u2019s and Don\u2019ts for a Successful Break-Up]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fgQlPU The Dating With EXpectation Factor]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Ce6Pdg Dating Real Test Is in the Wallet]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cj0wFa How To Know That Your Relationship Is In Trouble]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fjgi1q When Potential Becomes a Relationship Killer]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48W4QGR The Unspoken Truths About Blame in Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48GnhPx How Technology is Killing the Romance]]\n\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 10 Thumb down 4\nmelmoth July 24, 2014 at 18:10\nMaaldweb\n\nYou make a great point. Liberals go with image, conservatives stick with logic. That\u2019s why Hollywood etc is their domain. And for all the talk of liberals being the more literate party, then look at how much more sales are generated by conservative authors. A liberal will take his goatee and battered copy of \u2018The Stranger\u2019 to cafe after cafe. It\u2019s all to capture an image and has nothing to do with actual reading. Look at the recent uproar over the Taliban girl holding a rifle and the Koran juxtaposed with the yankee holding her bible and a rifle. Liberals rejoiced. \u201cSame! Same! Same!\u201d The fact that the books held different beliefs and that the reason for being armed was diametric (murder of innocents vs. self-defense) did not matter at all. HOW IS IT THE SAME IF THEY ARE HOLDING A DIFFERENT BOOK? The image was the same and that is as deep as it goes for an image-based thinker. I strongly recommend Neal Postman\u2019s \u201cAmusing Ourselves to Death\u201d about the cultural shift from logic(minds developed from text) to thinking in image (minds developed from TV).\n\nHot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 16 Thumb down 6\nepoche* July 24, 2014 at 18:24\nMen\u2019s Rights Organization\nCAFE Toronto has debate about why they werent allowed in gay pride\n\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2013\nhttps:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=3W3ww3a4IKQ\u0026amp;list=UUvlBoX4hBrM2yUglBQcYVHg\n\nWhat they cannot wrap their minds around the problems of liberalism and its insane belief in rational harmony.\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 1 Thumb down 4\nThe Other Jim July 24, 2014 at 18:36\nNot to derail this topic, but after working in SE Asia I\u2019m also of the opinion that Caning is far more humane than condemning people to spend their lives bouncing back and forth in between prison where they are brutalized, raped, and become more hardened criminals. Singapore\u2019s justice system, IMO has quite a bit right.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-11-08","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-11-08","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"EndingItGracefullyHowToHandleABreakupW","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-08 17:30:59","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-08 17:30:59","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-11-08\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-11-08\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022EndingItGracefullyHowToHandleABreakupW\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-08 17:30:59\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-08 17:30:59\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?EndingItGracefullyHowToHandleABreakupW"},"HeartsAreFreeDataIsntOnlineLoveInFin":{"bf_titre":"Hearts Are Free, Data Isn\u2019t: Online Love in Financially Strapped Times","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UM2wMy Signs Men Look For Before Approaching]]\t\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UMKNEQ It\u2019s Okay Not To Fight For Your Girl]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YN2JAt I Have No White Friends]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Z0kVYl When Romance Gets Real]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3AAz05E How Fashion Trends Test Masculinity and Memory]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ABOuGt Getting Ready for \u2018I Do\u2019]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UJKBGg Why Is It Hard For Men To Write About Sex?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Z0Fkwt Why Love Means Tolerating Each Other\u0027s Quirks]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hXZyyH When Love Escapes Us.]]\n\nBasically, it\u2019s an exercise in a particular brand of butthurtness that\u2019s even worse than the typical butthurtness: A hypocritical butthurtness. It operates from the premise that these bitches and hoes are \u201cwinning.\u201d And, since these bitches and hoes are winning, we need someone to stand up for men to put those bitches and hoes in their places.\n\nThis premise conveniently ignores the fact that the last two decades of rap music has been filled with song after song after song after song after song after song of lyrics and concepts insulting and disrespecting women. These are not veiled or implied disses, either. The consistency of these types of lyrics is only rivaled by how bold and unambiguous they tend to be. Songs like \u201cNo Scrubs\u201d and \u201cLookin Ass Niggas\u201d are singular raindrops in an ocean full of \u201cBig Pimpin\u201ds and \u201cTip Drill\u201ds and \u201cPop That\u201ds and \u201cBitches Ain\u2019t Shit\u201ds.\n\nWhile talking to Panama a couple weeks ago about the reaction to the post about Pharrell\u2019s GIRL cover and Black male privilege, the conversation somehow segued to us discussing how different our backgrounds are, especially when it comes to the ambiguous and amorphous concept of Blackness.. He\u2019s biracial, lived in the Blackest state on Earth (Alabama), the Blackest city on Earth (Detroit), and Germany. (Yes. That Germany.) He also went to an all-boys HBCU, and currently lives in the Bougie Black Person\u2019s Mecca (Washington, D.C.).\n\nI grew up and still live in Pittsburgh, PA \u2013\u2013 the Whitest major metropolitan area in the country. I also lived on one of the most dangerous streets in the city, but I was somewhat insulated from that because my parents sent me to private school in the suburbs and, from the time I was maybe 12 years old, I was a star basketball player. (By my junior year in high school, we moved to that suburb.) This awkward simultaneous connection to and distance from Blackness continued in college. I went to a predominately White university, and I immediately immersed myself with the BlackBlack people on campus. As a junior I was an officer in the Afro-American Society, and my senior year I was an editor of the Black newspaper, The Nia News. But I was also a scholarship basketball player. Which meant I was immune to many of the issues Black students faced.\n\nThe conversation then shifted to how the uniqueness of each of our backgrounds, upbringings, and character traits (both learned and innate) controls each of our thoughts and actions today. None of our beliefs, opinions, personalities, and biases happened by accident. All earned their way to be with us.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-11-12","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-11-12","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"HeartsAreFreeDataIsntOnlineLoveInFin","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-12 17:39:46","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-12 17:39:46","user":"74.7.227.160","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-11-12\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-11-12\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022HeartsAreFreeDataIsntOnlineLoveInFin\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-12 17:39:46\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-12 17:39:46\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?HeartsAreFreeDataIsntOnlineLoveInFin"},"NavigatingYourFirstTimeTurningAnUnfulfil":{"bf_titre":"Navigating Your First Time: Turning an Unfulfilling Experience into a Learning Opportunity","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ALVd0r What It\u2019s Like to Be a Guy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YJGBqn Do You Want Me To Come Over or Nah?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YIxExO The Top 10 Natural PUA Film Characters]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YNN1Vu Six Fundamental Rules Of Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48NziTt She\u0027s Out Of My League?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YJdd3C 6 Simple Ways To Attract Guys]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48JPXqI 4 Things You Should Know About Arguing With Your Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3APtCLQ A Guide to Recognizing Red Flags in Online Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YD19Ri My Worst One Nite Stand Competition]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ergOJz Is Friend With Benefits Really Possible?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4foiapx How White People Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48ThypK Letter From An Ex-Girlfriend]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3YNw7GN Seducing Someone More Attractive Than You]]\n\nok i met this guy i was a virgo with no sexual experience but we talk it out n i wanted to have that experience with him...but when it came to actual act, it wasnt really what i expected he took me from behind at 1st and there was no foreplay even though it was my FIRST time..what does that mean? i expected more\n\nIt sounds like your Romeo went out of his way to make your first experience positively lame and unsupportive. Is doggy style always positively lame and unsupportive? No, but it\u0027s all about time and place. Introducing you to the world of sex, by not warming you up - emotionally or physically, and not facing you during the actual intercourse sounds like a less than ideal maiden voyage on the seas of sex. Let me be clear, this isn\u0027t off the wall evil, but it does directly speak to why you feel sort of \u0022really?\u0022 after the big V has fallen.\n\nKnow this: sex has many angles and feels and energies. Ideally, your fist time would be softer, slower, more interactive and all together a more intimate, romantic experience. You entered this sex as a first timer with someone who\u0027s been on the ride before, as such you sort of gave up the reins and let show me the way. You handed him a ticket and said, \u0022OK, ready.\u0022 In turn he showed you A way. Perhaps not THE way.\n\nNow, you are wiser. Now it\u0027s time for sex #2 and every sex experience beyond. Now you can be and should be part of the planning and execution committee. Sex is not a bystander sport. It requires participation. Yes, there are times when the participation amounts to \u0022take me\u0022 but usually it means sharing the wheel and punching the tickets as a team.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-11-13","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-11-13","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"NavigatingYourFirstTimeTurningAnUnfulfil","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-13 16:36:08","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-13 16:36:08","user":"213.93.205.185","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-11-13\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-11-13\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022NavigatingYourFirstTimeTurningAnUnfulfil\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-13 16:36:08\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-13 16:36:08\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?NavigatingYourFirstTimeTurningAnUnfulfil"},"GreatLastMinuteValentinesIdeasToShowYou":{"bf_titre":"Great Last Minute Valentine\u2019s Ideas To Show You (Don\u2019t) Care","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3USGqbk 5 Ways To Prove You\u2019re Really In Love!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CuKPLi Why Dating A Geek\/Nerd Is Good Strategy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3O8Ygmw Break-Up Do\u2019s And Don\u2019ts]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UUq2Ho The \u201cStraight\u201d Dope On Traditional Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CpLYDV Things I Wish Mom Told Me About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UTsCx7 The Struggle of Modern Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3AKNwaX The Perils of Dating a Married Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/48RNz1f A Woman\u2019s Guide Of Back Hair Acceptance]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3O8INDa 10 Things Every Single Man Needs]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UTsaip Epic Meet-Cute Scenarios for Online Daters]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3UO3YOs 10 Things Every Single Woman Needs]]\n\nMy friends, Valentine\u2019s Day is almost here! If you\u2019re a truly vapid person, this is an excellent opportunity to put that on display. Here are some great Valentines date ideas:\n\n1. Attend a 7 PM showing of the latest Nicholas Sparks movie \u201cSafe Haven\u201d (get tickets in advance since it\u2019s opening night!), followed by dinner at The Olive Garden (don\u2019t forget to make reservations!)\n\n2. Go see \u201cBlue Man Group\u201d or any other long-running and way-overpriced theatrical spectacle. Take pictures with the Blue Men after the show!\n\n3. Stay in and rent \u201cThe Notebook.\u201d Wear heart boxers (him) and pink silk pajama pants (her). Kick roommates out of the living room and sprinkle rose petals on the wall-to-wall carpet.\n\n4. Have dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. Show her how little you care.\n\n5. Hand deliver edible arrangements to your crush and then feed them to each other in front of their co-workers. Their colleagues will think it\u2019s SO sweet!\n\n6. The week before Valentine\u2019s Day, get matching tattoos of each other\u2019s face; on Valentine\u2019s Day, reveal them to all your friends. Ignore those idiots when they tell you it won\u2019t last \u2013 after all, THEY have no idea how magical the last two weeks have been.\n\n7. Both learn the lyrics to the song \u201cHey There Delilah\u201d and then sing along to it at karaoke. People find this endearing and a true expression of authentic love.\n\n8. Propose, ideally by hiding a ring in a disgustingly massive slice of Oreo cheesecake from the \u201crestaurant\u201d, the Cheesecake Factory.\n\n9. Skype with your \u201cboyfriend\u201d in Germany and brag to your friends that you\u2019re no catfish. (Never tell them how much money you send him every month.)\n\n10. Marry your high school sweetheart before graduation. Just know in your heart that it\u2019s right.\n\nBonus for Terrible Long Distance Couples: Guys, send your girl a Jane Seymour-designed \u201cOpen Heart\u201d necklace that comes in a heart-shaped box. In case it doesn\u2019t arrive in time, also send a personalized singing e-card. Maybe include a video proposal! Why not??","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-11-18","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-11-18","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"GreatLastMinuteValentinesIdeasToShowYou","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-18 16:35:38","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-18 16:35:38","user":"74.7.242.19","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-11-18\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-11-18\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022GreatLastMinuteValentinesIdeasToShowYou\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-18 16:35:38\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-18 16:35:38\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?GreatLastMinuteValentinesIdeasToShowYou"},"TheTruthAboutRelationshipJunkies":{"bf_titre":"The Truth About Relationship Junkies","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fCjsO3 The Surprisingly Solid Dating Advice From Kanye West]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fBAmMI How To Please Your Mate]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fA9Vqx Rearranging The Deck Chairs On The Titanic of Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fyuvHS Ridiculous Dating Advice That\u2019s Totally True]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40TzwGF Things Men Do That Women Probably Hate]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40Tzy1f Things I Think I\u2019d Hate About Women If I Were a Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4eHBBZB What Single People Get Wrong About Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40TzA9n Chicken Livers and Relationship Drama]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CN9lqR Why Splitting Costs Isn\u0027t Splitting Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4920rC6 The Instant Turn-Offs That Will Get You Cut Off]]\n\nWe all know at least one relationship junkie. If it isn\u2019t us, it may be one of our closest friends. You know the type-their primary focus always seems to be getting, finding and staying in a relationship. The serial monogamists who just can\u2019t stand the brief periods of time in which they find themselves single. Like addicts looking for their next fix, life just ain\u2019t right unless there is someone around for them to call \u201cmine.\u201d They breathe, eat, and sleep their relationships. And the stories they tell in the beginning of each new love affair? They are dramatic accounts of deeply intense emotions unlike anything they have ever experienced before. Not ever. They have finally found the one that they\u2019ve been looking for. Now, they are complete.\n\nWe can always choose to be complicit in the delusion by nodding in agreement and watching them as they ride that relationship high. That is until they crash, of course. We can say that we are being supportive, but somehow, that just seems a little disingenuous and just flat out wrong. When we choose ignore the behavior, we fail to remind them of the truth: that things have gone slightly, if not totally awry for us when our happiness and feelings of self-worth are contingent upon our relationship status. That wanting a partner is quite different than needing one; and when that want becomes a need, it might be time to stop looking for a partner and ask ourselves what it is that we are really missing.\n\nI believe in love. Truly, I do. And new love is always exciting. It serves as a reminder that we live in a world that provides endless opportunities to make a fresh start. It is a sign of our resilience, faith, and belief in possibilities. But what doesn\u2019t work for any of us is when we believe that another person is, or ever could be, the only source of our happiness. In these moments, we might want to consider that maybe it isn\u2019t really a new love that we are looking for. We may just be trying to find a way to love ourselves.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-11-21","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-11-21","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheTruthAboutRelationshipJunkies","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-21 16:53:25","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-21 16:53:25","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-11-21\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-11-21\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheTruthAboutRelationshipJunkies\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-21 16:53:25\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-21 16:53:25\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?TheTruthAboutRelationshipJunkies"},"SocialMediaIsntYourSoulmateTheIllusion":{"bf_titre":"Social Media Isn\u2019t Your Soulmate: The Illusion of Online Intimacy","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OAnPx7 Things Men Talk About When Women Aren\u2019t Looking]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ieep8a Black Men Desirability: Unpacking Cultural Biases]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ihGVpy Women\u0027 Things Men Struggle To Understand]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4irrDyy Going Nowhere Fast, We\u2019ve Reached Our Climax]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CUQ9I0 Are Women Too Loyal for Their Own Good]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41dXv3x Things Black People Say?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ijKImf What Really Works For Us Chicks]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3AYvJgJ Words I Hope My Daughter Never Says]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CROmDn Why Women Get a Pass on Things Men Can\u2019t]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ihnlJL 5 Signs That You Might Be Dating a Zombie Who Might Zombie Apocalapyse Your A**]]\n\nAnd in case you don\u2019t think the Quran\u2019s rulings are applicable in the present day, here\u2019s the late(died 1979) but very popular(\u0026amp; oft cited) Pakistani Jurist Abul A\u2019la Maududi talking about his ideal state (you might not have heard of him, his Jaamati followers in the UK Islamic Mission are the largest component of the Muslim Council of Britain):\n\n\u201cMany misunderstandings seem to persist about the right to have sexual relations with one\u2019s slave-girls. It is pertinent to call attention to the following regulations of Islam:\n\n\u201cIslam does not permit soldiers of the Islamic army to have sexual relations with women they capture in war. Islamic Law requires that such women should first be handed over to the government, which then has the right to decide what should be done with them. It may either set them free unconditionally, release them on payment of ransom, exchange them for Muslim prisoners of war held by the enemy or distribute them among the soldiers. A soldier may have sexual relations only with that woman who has been entrusted to him by the government.\n\nIt is not necessary for female captives of war to be People of the Book in order that sexual relations with them be permitted. The man to whom such a woman is entrusted has the right to have sexual relations with her regardless of her religious affiliations.\n\nAlthough the Law has fixed the maximum number of wives at four, it has set no limit with regard to slave-girls. The Law does not lay down a limit in order to encourage people to accumulate huge armies of slave-girls, and thereby turn their homes into dens of sexual enjoyment. Rather the Law does not define the limit because the effects of war and the total number of female captives that would have to be disposed of after a certain war are unpredictable.\u201d\nLink: http:\/\/www.tafheem.net\n\nThat\u2019s not a future I want for anyone. I don\u2019t want to make this post any longer, but rape, kidnapping, and forced conversion to Islam by Muslims towards Christians, Hindu\u2019s, and Sikh\u2019s in Pakistan is still very common. I\u2019ll also add that the US has seen similar sex trafficking rings here in the US, only with Somali Muslims(who have the same contempt of all non-Muslims as their Pakistani brethren). Link: http:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/us\/2012\/05\/04\/verdict-expected-in-somali-sex-trafficking-case\/\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-12-03","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-12-03","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SocialMediaIsntYourSoulmateTheIllusion","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-03 17:45:06","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-03 17:45:06","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-12-03\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-12-03\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SocialMediaIsntYourSoulmateTheIllusion\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-03 17:45:06\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-03 17:45:06\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?SocialMediaIsntYourSoulmateTheIllusion"},"SafetyFirstHowToSpotAndAvoidRomanceSca":{"bf_titre":"Safety First: How to Spot and Avoid Romance Scams","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ODlgdx Rediscovering Love on My Own Terms]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3D0NwED Single Men Who Want More Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ihRnNE Open Letter To Men Who Want More]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4idyw6t For Men Who Love Poly Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4icEwMC Progressive Love Applauds Too $hort]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CZav2Q Is Love the Most Feared Emotion?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3B05zu4 Love Kills Self Love \u0026amp; Self Esteem]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4in48q8 Are Nagging \u0026amp; Cheating Equally Damaging?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OLPRFP Why Do We Fall In Love? Is It Healthy?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f219jW Why Master Monogamy]]\n\nWhat should really be mentioned at this point is that if your date (be they male or female) has issues like this, it is perfectly acceptable to take a reasonable look at the situation and conclude that it\u2019s not something you can handle. I was lucky\u2026my FwB had previous experience with teens\/young adults who\u2019d been abused, and a past girlfriend had been raped by a relative. He understood the difficulties in helping someone relearn that touch I= humiliation or pain. Personally, it took over 9 months of us being \u201ctogether\u201d before we could have sex. Now we\u2019ve been FwB for over 8 years, so obviously it worked out for us.\n\nBUT! If he hadn\u2019t known how to do any of that and we simply remained normal friends, that would\u2019ve been okay. It is nobody\u2019s responsibility to fix anyone else, and no man or woman should be guilted into dating someone who needs to work on emotional issues, especially if these issues would drastically affect the potential relationship. It is fine to understand your own boundaries and abilities, and it is responsible to recognize that you may not be mentally or emotionally equipped to deal with such things.\n\nReply \u2193\ncecilhenry on January 10, 2015 at 7:41 PM said:\nDon;t like to be touched is some kind of problem???\n\nNot at all\u2014except maybe for the one denied.\n\nBeing touched, like any physical intimacy is voluntary and based on a wish to have contact with someone else. It is discriminatory and selective\u2014otherwise it can neither be moral or intimate.\n\nOne is only touched by something or someone they want contact with\u2014that such a simple fact is missed says more about the one upset by this fact. Why are you afraid of boundaries???\n\nYour wish to touch may be a means to hide other motivations by forcing emotional reactions.\n\nNothing to do with abuse (although that could be another cause, but ofter abused people lack boundaries).\n\nI like to touch some people-depends now doesn;t it??? It would have to!!!!\n\nThe short-sightness and insularity of this article astounds. Stop and think this over again.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-12-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-12-10","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SafetyFirstHowToSpotAndAvoidRomanceSca","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-10 11:05:18","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-10 11:05:18","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-12-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-12-10\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SafetyFirstHowToSpotAndAvoidRomanceSca\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-10 11:05:18\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-10 11:05:18\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?SafetyFirstHowToSpotAndAvoidRomanceSca"},"WhatWomenSayVsWhatMenHear":{"bf_titre":"What Women Say vs. What Men Hear","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49t6JuJ Ladies We Need Answers]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g80eQB The Difference Between Girls and Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g6WwGF On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g80E9E A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g6Uxm1 The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fZuRaN 10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ingZZs The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g6WjTT Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iGvCaC Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g8CI63 The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3D6FGt3 Don\u2019t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g7vgb9 Tickle Me Cheater]]\n\n\nLILGRL PERMALINK*\nOctober 21, 2009 5:24 pm\nNote 3 : A woman asking such questions *after* tests and qualification is an IOI, even as limited as a webforum is for such expression.\n\nAn IOI!\n\nSorry, Tood, but it was really just an indicator of\u2026my wanting to know your GMAT score. Mainly because I\u2019ve worked with things concerning the GMAT and so, whenever someone says they\u2019ve taken the GMAT, I want to know their score.\n\nI also like getting you to divulge non-girl\/relationship-related tidbits, because it further proves that your \u201cnot divulging girl\/relationship-related anecdotes for fear of being found out\u201d is a weak excuse.\n\n\nLILGRL PERMALINK*\nOctober 21, 2009 5:26 pm\nAnd I wanted to know if you were the same as\/worse than my boyfriend.\n\n\nLILGRL PERMALINK*\nOctober 21, 2009 5:32 pm\nA note on your notes:\n\n1: It was not a shit-test, it wasn\u2019t even a test \u2014 it was a ridiculous statement designed so that you might understand how absolutely ridiculous it is that you\u2019re not sharing anecdotes because you\u2019re afraid you might be discovered. You were not supposed to think of it as a test \u2014 you were supposed to READ FOR COMPREHENSION and be like, \u201cWell, that\u2019s just absurd \u2014 OH, I get what she means.\u201d\n\n2: It\u2019s not qualifying, it\u2019s making the aforementioned \u201cridiculous statement\u201d even more \u201cridiculous\u201d. I wasn\u2019t trying to brag about hooking up with anyone \u2014 I was trying to say that EVEN IF the story was about me and a pop star, it would still be ABSURD to think that you could discover even the name of the pop star from my anecdotal evidence.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-12-12","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-12-12","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhatWomenSayVsWhatMenHear","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-12 11:41:33","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-12 11:41:33","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-12-12\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-12-12\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhatWomenSayVsWhatMenHear\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-12 11:41:33\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-12 11:41:33\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?WhatWomenSayVsWhatMenHear"},"LoveOnVacation":{"bf_titre":"Love on Vacation","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49yWLYK How Pocket-Dialing Can C*ckblock You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g8Sg9R Attack of The Killer Ex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ORrrL8 How To Deal With A Psycho Ex During The Holidays]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DfapnV Attention Mongers Crybabies and Dramaheads]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DadqpB 25 Signals You\u0027re Not Ready For a Online Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gcYLIz 5 Skills Every Man And Woman Should Master]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49z3q5i Can Sex Be A Laughing Matter?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gbh8xB The Sh*t Women Say That Piss Off Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49BHSF9 Dating a Jersey Shore Fan]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gaO7lT Dealing With Exes on Valentine\u2019s Day]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OXBtdG A Decent Girl For a Nice Guy]]\n\nSo, you went on several bad dates you found through online personals. You got some free xxx, you had a little fun, you gave up, you started again, and you finally found someone promising. Someone who makes you want to be the person you pretend you are.\n\nSo, what next? Why not go on a mini-vacation together? Vacations can be dangerous for a new romance, but they are also truth tellers. They can tell you if you\u2019re truly crazy about a person, or if you never want to see them ever again. Here are three suggestions for mini-vacays that won\u2019t fail.\n\n\n\n1. Wine Country\n\nPlan a trip to the nearest winery. Do a wine tour. Get drunk in the sun. Stay in an inn. Eat croissants.\n\n2. Quebec City\n\nCanada! (Is Awesome.) And Quebec is a mix of romance and spite. The French people hate everyone, and you will be united with your lover in feeling hated. The food kicks ass. The scenery is stunning. Bed \u0026amp; Breakfasts are cheap and gorgeous. Avoid winter, unless you\u2019s a rugged type.\n\n3. Arizona\n\nClimb the red mountains. Swim in a cheap motel pool. Feel super fit and beautiful next to the rather obese population of this odd state.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-12-13","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-12-13","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"LoveOnVacation","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-13 11:06:38","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-13 11:06:38","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-12-13\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-12-13\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022LoveOnVacation\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-13 11:06:38\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-13 11:06:38\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?LoveOnVacation"},"HowNotToAttractAPartnerLessonsFromAwkw":{"bf_titre":"How Not to Attract a Partner: Lessons from Awkward Encounters","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BDqpzx The Wingwoman]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VEN84T Change You Can Believe In: Yourself]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VJDLkO Quick to Pass Judgment]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41z2ZGa Why Some People Hate Valentine\u2019s Day]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41GcK5f I\u2019m Single on Valentine\u2019s Day]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Eo164 My Secret Social Identity]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49MGdNc What Exactly Is Dating? It\u2019s Ambiguous.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41DssOE Why Love Is Not a First Sight Thing]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Ge48n Chivalry Makes Women Feel Good]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Bz0sRH Relationship Experts: Hate The Player Or The Game?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41ABtbl The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VGO20U The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BmqveY The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41A5KHe 8 Ways to Make a Guy Not Want to Sleep with You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VGgYGr 8 Ways to Make a Woman NOT Want to Sleep with You]]\n\n\nOf course, these are just a couple of the reasons why I decided to move. I\u2019m not even going to touch upon Dr. Mary Jane\u2019s marijuana-fueled harmonica jam sessions or her utter disregard for privacy, quietness and bras.\n\nDespite an afternoon thunderstorm, the day I moved was hot and the air was thick with a suffocating humidity. My white tee was soaked with rain and sweat and the front of it was browned with a dusting of dirt. Salty beads of sweat rolled down my baldhead and I looked- and smelled- like I had just sprinted through a marathon. After I packed the last box into the rental van, I returned to the apartment to give her my keys. Surprisingly, she handed me a stack of crisp hundred dollar bills. \u201cHere is your security deposit, sir,\u201d she said, matter-of-factly.\n\nI folded the bills and shoved them into the front pocket of my cargo shorts. \u201cI would give you a hug goodbye,\u201d she said, stepping back and balancing her joint on the side of an ash tray, \u201cbut you\u2019re all sweaty and dirty.\u201d\n\n\u201cNonsense!\u201d I exclaimed. \u201cGive me a hug!\u201d Before she could react, I lunged forward and wrapped my big hairy, sweaty arms around her short, chubby body and squeezed her into me, making sure to smash her face into my wet, dirty bosom.\n\n\u201cThanks for\u2026everything,\u201d I said. It might have sounded flippant, but in reality, deep down, I am grateful for Dr. Mary Jane. Yes, we didn\u2019t always get along and she was a bully and she was loud and she forbade me to bring bacon in the house, but my two years in her apartment was a huge learning experience for me. I learned resourcefulness and tolerance. I learned to choose my battles and I learned the importance of standing up for myself. I wouldn\u2019t want to necessarily do it again, but I also wouldn\u2019t trade the experience for anything. Well, except maybe for a date with Usher.\n\nI thought I would feel sentimental in some way, leaving that apartment for the last time, but I didn\u2019t even give my empty room one last dramatic look. I just turned heel and took off, eager to get to my new apartment where I could play loud music, let boys spend the night and fill the fridge with pork products.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-12-19","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-12-19","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"HowNotToAttractAPartnerLessonsFromAwkw","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-19 10:41:10","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-19 10:41:10","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-12-19\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-12-19\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022HowNotToAttractAPartnerLessonsFromAwkw\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-19 10:41:10\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-19 10:41:10\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?HowNotToAttractAPartnerLessonsFromAwkw"},"PlayersVsGameRethinkingRelationshipAdvic":{"bf_titre":"Players vs. Game: Rethinking Relationship Advice","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VSuTck The Road Map to Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BLeIa4 Patriarchy Stole My Power and Now I\u0027m Gonna Take it Back!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gRjTnS Digging Up Negative Dating Patterns]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DvYfqS The Mama\u0027s Boy Myth]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iJwIlM The Majority of \u0022Dating Crimes\u0022 Are In Our Heads]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iSG8eJ The Dating Chase]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iR17yE The Physics of Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gNQ6wg Dating While \u0022Fat\u0022]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gL16KE Men Are Hardwired to Cheat And Other Silly Stories]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gSIxnR The Conservative Backlash Towards Attempts to Liberate Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VVZLsu Seeking to Change Your Partner]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VUFZgZ Sluts Studs And Straightjaket Sexuality]]\n\nExcept for the fact that I live in the US, I could have written your comment. I love that GWS strip.\n\nPretty good 101 post, most of the assumptions about what me being bi means (indecisive, greedy, really gay) have come from the gay community so i think someone laying on the line that these are not OK is really important.\n\nmost of the assumptions about what me being bi means (indecisive, greedy, really gay) have come from the gay community\n\nStraight people do not make these assumptions about you as well?\n\n \nI\u2019ve heard more of the \u201cbisexual people are extreme sluts\/horndogs\u201d line of assumptions from straight people than the \u201cthey\u2019re really gay\u201d line of assumptions, but that\u2019s just me.\n\n \nI\u2019ve heard more of the \u201cbisexual people are extreme sluts\/horndogs\u201d line of assumptions from straight people\n\nThat\u2019s a very common thing that folks seeking to be ugly to other folks (even subtly, politely ugly) do\u2026..reduce a human being in all of that person\u2019s complexity to the worst possible assumption of that person. For bi people, it\u2019s sexual appetite. (Compare to, say, gay men, where it\u2019s pedophilia.)\n\nI\u2019m not speaking for Jemima, but the \u201creally gay\u201d has come exclusively from gay people for me. The rest is pretty evenly distributed between gay and straight people.\n\n\nSame here. I was once flirting with this black woman in a bar and the convo basically went:\n\nMe: Blah blah i\u2019m mixed-\n\nHer: You look like a black woman so that\u2019s what you are\u2026\n\nMe:\u2026\n\nHer: blah blah lesbians, amiright?\n\nMe: I\u2019m bi\n\nHer: ohhh such a cute little baby! When you come out as lesbian you\u2019ll understand-now about your misguided career choice\u2026\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-12-25","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-12-25","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"PlayersVsGameRethinkingRelationshipAdvic","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-25 11:23:17","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-25 11:23:17","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-12-25\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-12-25\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022PlayersVsGameRethinkingRelationshipAdvic\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-25 11:23:17\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-25 11:23:17\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?PlayersVsGameRethinkingRelationshipAdvic"},"TheInfluenceOfUpbringingOnRomanticChoices":{"bf_titre":"The Influence of Upbringing on Romantic Choices","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VXueGD A Few Thoughts on Conflict in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VPvmfl Why Trying to \u0022Be More Feminine or Masculine\u0022 is a Trap]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BJCTWp \u0022Not Good Enough\u0022]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VUAFdG Chasing After Instant Chemistry is Foolish]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BLGjba Does Longevity in the Past = Mature Dater Today?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BNkUOT Are You Really Prepared for a Relationship?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VWKPKV Guys Don\u2019t Want to Date \u201cOne of The Guys\u201d]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VTunuK Things I Have Learned About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VVCVBz Fear in Dating and Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VUsWfK Does the Person You\u0027re Dating Make You Smile]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VWL2Od Marrige and Happiness]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VXu8Ph Is Your Resolution to Find Love in the New Year?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VQDqNe Disappearing Dates]]\n\nJen\nJen\nMay 16, 2013 at 4:37 pm | Permalink\nExcellent article.\n\nRe. September 23rd, there is more information about Bi Visibility Day on the september23.bi.org website and its associated twitter \/ facebook pages.\n\nTracey\nTracey\nMay 17, 2013 at 9:46 am | Permalink\nMy partner and I write books for women who are coming out as lesbian, bisexual or questioning. We also have an online support group, and since 2003 our group has supported over 5,000 women worldwide. I just wanted to write that this is an excellent article, and I am going to send a link to it to our support group members and also post it on our social networks. We have over 1,000 members in our group right now and around the same in our social network : )\n\nMay 28, 2013 at 10:07 am | Permalink\nThis is interesting. I\u2019ve always thought of bi being part of the terms gay, homophobia, etc. So, when I\u2019ve used them, I never intended to be exclusionary.\n\nWords are a tricky thing. Even the most well intentioned people who think they are well informed can still say the wrong thing.\n\nThis specifically makes me think of a situation recently where my boyfriend asked someone he\u2019d been talking to for a long time if they\u2019d prefer to be referred to as \u2018he\u2019 or \u2018she\u2019 since my boyfriend was sincerely not sure and wanted to say the right thing. In this case, the person in question said that whenever possible the best thing would just be to actually use their name and avoid those words, but otherwise, either was fine. They were also just really happy they were asked rather than some assumption be made.\n\nI find it interesting that the question asked was an \u201cA or B\u201d question, and the answer was something like \u201cC and either A or B is also okay\u201d. We think we\u2019re well informed people, and then we realize we actually don\u2019t even know enough to ask the completely correct question. There are so many different variations on identity. The important part is caring enough to ask, keeping an open mind, and trying not to make too many assumptions (and letting them go when you find out you did).\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-12-26","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-12-26","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheInfluenceOfUpbringingOnRomanticChoices","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-26 11:29:23","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-26 11:29:23","user":"74.7.242.19","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-12-26\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-12-26\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheInfluenceOfUpbringingOnRomanticChoices\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-26 11:29:23\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-26 11:29:23\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?TheInfluenceOfUpbringingOnRomanticChoices"},"FixatingOnStrangersWhenFantasiesCloudJud":{"bf_titre":"Fixating on Strangers: When Fantasies Cloud Judgment","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49YWnTO More On the Nuclear Family with Children Narrative]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iX9E3k Loosening the Chains of the Nuclear Family]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iSkabY Kindness and Modern Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gNRM8Q How to Navigate Uncertainty in Online Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DtnDgM A Dating Suggestion to the Deeply Frustrated]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49X16VV Rethinking Gender Norms in Modern Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49STOm7 Obsessing About Strangers]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49UFqJW Two Dates in One]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iRFmyN Texts Or Calls And Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Pc2lqL Men Like a Challenge]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4acUVxf Men Want to Feel Manly]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gPbSQf Issues with the Language of Dating Angst]]\n\nWhat made this feeling even weirder was that it wasn\u2019t rooted in any racial hang-ups and\/or neurosis. It \u2014 interracial dating \u2014 just didn\u2019t compute as a possibility because I never saw any of my peers do it. I guess it\u2019s kind of like the KFC Double Down in that way. I wouldn\u2019t have fathomed that you could make a chicken\/meat\/chicken sandwich until I actually saw it done.\n\nAshley: I always joke that I didn\u2019t \u201cdiscover\u201d race until I attended Howard University. Sure, I knew the different colors of the \u2018racebow\u2019, but I didn\u2019t know what it meant for me or my peers.  I grew up in a predominantly white suburb in Michigan (right outside of Detroit and not too far from 8 mile\u2026). There were a ton of interracial relationships in my family. For the longest time I assumed my white aunts were just fair-skinned black women. Our family didn\u2019t talk about race, but we were still \u201cblack\u201d (if that makes sense). Meaning, you could catch anything from B.I.G to Bill Withers on the stereo on any given day. So the messages that I received were that it was, \u201call good.\u201d I don\u2019t recall any funny looks or whispered conversations about the interracial couples in our family. My uncles didn\u2019t run to the family bbq expecting an award for bringing a woman of a different race around. It was something we were just all used to seeing.\n\nCheryl Lynn: The topic of interracial relationships wasn\u2019t (and still isn\u2019t) a topic that is discussed in my family. Still, I definitely got the impression that that there were interracial relationships that weren\u2019t an issue and interracial relationships that were. Romantic relationships between blacks and Latinos were\/are so common in my family and community that I often forget that they actually are interracial relationships. My family and friends have never frowned upon romantic relationships between blacks and whites\u2026but it is a thing. It\u2019s an elephant in the room.  I remember the raised eyebrows when I went to the prom with a white guy. It was the only time I dated a white guy and the only time I ever got those raised eyebrows. Once I brought home an ethnically\/racially ambiguous Asian guy. My mom was really sweet, but as soon as he left asked, \u201cWhat is he?\u201d  I told her \u201cHe\u2019s not white.\u201d  And that was all the answer she needed.  But if you bring a white person home, there are little jokes, little looks. Nothing mean, but your relationship is marked as different. The one exception? If your significant other is gay. I guess there\u2019s a minority requirement\u2026but they don\u2019t care what minority!\n\nAndrea: My maternal family\u2013especially my mom and aunts, who were the last two generations to see that \u201cwhites-only\u201d sign racism in the US\u2013let me know that it was not OK to get with the ofay. Other men of color were seen as \u201cnot quite\u201d what the fam wanted to see me bring home to them. But my mom also said that, if she had her preference in seeing an interracial couple\u2013like you, N\u2019jaila, she thought of \u201cinterracial\u201d as PoC and White pairings\u2013she\u2019d much rather see a Black woman with a White Man than a Black man with a White woman. In her mind, the Black woman is \u201cgetting hers.\u201d\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-01-02","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-01-02","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FixatingOnStrangersWhenFantasiesCloudJud","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:11:24","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:11:25","user":"66.249.70.34","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-01-02\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-01-02\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FixatingOnStrangersWhenFantasiesCloudJud\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:11:24\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:11:25\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?FixatingOnStrangersWhenFantasiesCloudJud"},"TrustIssuesTheTemptationAndConsequencesO":{"bf_titre":"Trust Issues: The Temptation and Consequences of Snooping","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DyCtCX Questioning Dating Perferences]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a0qKcm Jaded About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49ZPRfm Endless Evidence Gathering]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49W3HiX Snooping on a Partner]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a6mcRS Interracial Dating And Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DCWdFv Why Do You Want to Be in a Relationship?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BNvt4w Being Really Smart Can Work Against A Woman]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49YqEBT Flexibility in Modern Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DDjFlQ \u0022Till Death Do Us Part\u0022]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a0bE6H Assembly Line of Hot]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a1kfWz The Art of Selective Truths in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gASzdA Warning Signs on the First Date]]\nDani: In my experience, age and geography have been bigger factors than class, though I guess it\u2019s all related. Through college and most of my 20s, all my serious boyfriends were black. As I\u2019ve gotten older \u2013 in the last five years or so \u2013 that\u2019s changed. In my late 20s and early 30s, I\u2019ve moved a lot for work and have been part of several cities\u2019 transient class, in which I\u2019ve tended to spend time with people who are also not native to those cities and who do work similar to mine. In these circles, it\u2019s been less likely that I meet black men, at least black men who aren\u2019t colleagues. I also realize that a large part of not dating black men in recent years is related to having ended up on the West Coast, where interracial dating \u2013 especially among people who aren\u2019t from here \u2013 is apparently required. During a phone conversation years ago, a black man who I had dated and who had moved to the Bay Area from the East Coast boasted about how much access he had to non-black women now that he was out west, and how much he was enjoying that. I remember asking who black women were with if black men were scrambling to be with white and Asian women and Latinas. He kind of snorted and said, \u201cI don\u2019t know. Each other, I guess.\u201d He was going out of his way to be an asshole and I get that, but now that I live here, I see what he meant. Black men and women to seem to have a kind of aversion to each other out here. I still haven\u2019t figured it out.\n\nKadian: I can\u2019t ever remember my family discussing interracial relationships or even voicing an opinion. Perhaps because no one in my family ever dated outside their \u201crace\u201d? My family is Jamaican, and they pretty much have an issue with dating outside the culture. So even Black Americans are seen as culturally very different. However, the message that I received from the wider society\/culture is that \u201cinterracial\u201d pretty much means the romantic mixing of Blacks \u0026amp; Whites with no other real attention to other \u201cracial\u201d pairings.  I do remember finding such pairings in film and television exciting, but somehow doomed to fail.\n\nOver at Baggage Reclaim, Natalie has a fine post on overthinking and it\u0027s impact on relationships. This particular paragraph, early on in the piece, was really striking:\n\nI have a friend who spent over a decade (yes you read that correctly) ruminating on her relationship. Every time we caught up about what was going on, she was trying to \u201cwork things out\u201d or \u201cfiguring things out\u201d or \u201cdeciding what the best thing to do is\u201d and even \u201ctrying to avoid making a mistake\u201d.\n\n\nHaving done some of this myself, I totally know how you can fall down that rabbit hole. Part of me knew six months into my first long term relationship that we were a poor match, but I didn\u0027t have the experience and insight yet to overcome the fear of ending it and being alone. We stayed together over three years.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-01-02","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-01-02","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TrustIssuesTheTemptationAndConsequencesO","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:27:06","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:27:06","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-01-02\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-01-02\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TrustIssuesTheTemptationAndConsequencesO\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:27:06\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:27:06\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?TrustIssuesTheTemptationAndConsequencesO"},"ComparingDatesToExs":{"bf_titre":"Comparing Dates to Ex\u2019s","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a8WpIB An Ode to Emily]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PqnoFX More Than Meets The Eyes]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ohyLQ Should I Tell Her How I Feel?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4aeydEU The Play Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9vj3X Dogs, Cats, and the Art of Dating: Lessons from the Cab Ride]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4aofffb The Colorado Connection That Could Never Be]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PqnoWt When Love Feels Like a DIY Project: The Fixer-Upper Dilemma]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DG5ug2 Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a5OThE Should You Settle?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a3xgPz Is There Hope For The Gender Gap?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Poz1x5 Cheating is a Cop Out]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a5TuQU The Dance of Second Chances]]\n\nSo what do you think about this one? Whenever you date someone new, do you find yourself comparing them to previous ex\u2019s?\n\nMe, I think it\u2019s kind of inevitable and even, maybe, natural? It doesn\u2019t have to be comparing the new girl to a specific ex, but perhaps specific traits of all your ex\u2019s.\n\nMaybe one of your ex\u2019s used to always know the right thing to say when you\u2019re down, and another used to love exploring just like you did, and a third used to surprise you with little thoughts \u0026amp; things when you least expected them. You know what I\u2019m talking about. Those great little things that made those past relationships so much fun while you were in them.\n\nBut of course, they all ended for a reason. One of your ex\u2019s always had something negative to say, another always seemed too busy or too aloof, and another was just too high maintenance.\n\nAll of these traits become benchmarks for your next relationship. Either consciously or unconsciously, they\u2019ve molded your expectations and standards. They\u2019ve become what you look for or what you avoid. In effect, they form your basis of comparison.\n\nAt least for me, that\u2019s how it is. Seems to come kind of naturally and unconsciously too.\n\nHow about you? Do you find yourself comparing your dates to ex\u2019s?","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-01-08","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-01-08","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ComparingDatesToExs","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-08 09:14:36","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-08 09:14:36","user":"74.7.227.23","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-01-08\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-01-08\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ComparingDatesToExs\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-08 09:14:36\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-08 09:14:36\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?ComparingDatesToExs"},"StanfordLawProfessorArguesBlackWomenShoul":{"bf_titre":"Stanford law professor argues black women should marry outside their race","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a8syQs Why Is Self-Esteem Important For Dating?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h6OoWZ Top Free and Paid Online Dating Websites]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ad0QC7 Seizing New Dating Opportunities]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WfL6sn The Perfect Movie Date at Home]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h3rJe2 Single Men Don\u2019t Have Body Image Issues]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hbd1lv What Makes a Good Man or a Good Woman?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h6Opdv Equating \u2018Sexuality\u2019 with Male Sexuality]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Wec7MR Why in the World Would I Ever Get Married?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ac3OqG How Jealousy Can Work For Us]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a7Gf2h The Catalano Generation is Revolutionizing Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9mFTc Mexico City\u0027s Short-Term Marriage Proposal]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DKfZPt Even in Relationship You\u2019re All Alone]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9jgnw I Lack the Commitment Gene]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DKfUeD Stop Crying and Be a Man]]\n\nA controversial new book has hit the market from Stanford law professor Ralph Richard Banks. In it, he argues that black women should look outside of their race when it comes to marriage, as more black women are getting advanced degrees, working at high positions in corporations, and taking on key roles in government than black men.\n\nHere\u2019s what the Mercury News article about the book suggests:\n\nHigh rates of incarceration and job-market discrimination against black men have created a gender imbalance. Then women confront the venerable economic model of supply and demand - scarcity creates excess demand for black grooms, tilting the terms of courtship to men\u2019s favor. Many simply sidestep commitment. [[https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/easyhookups\/ EasyHookups]]\n\n\u201cDon\u2019t marry down. Marry out,\u201d says Banks, an African-American man married to a black woman.\n\nNeedless to say, this topic will get a rise out of a lot of people, one way or the other. The article references a couple of Bay Area women who agree, saying they\u2019ve found they have more in common, both in terms of education and values, outside of their race.\n\nOn the other hand, experts from Howard University and the Robert C. Maynard Institute for Journalism Education say Banks research is skewed to show things in a certain light; that there are many black women who are happily married to black men with whom they are raising children.\n\nPlus, there\u2019s the argument that this take doesn\u2019t address the real problem \u2013 institutionalized racism that continues to plague black men, greatly diminishing their prospects of being successful.\n\n\u201cBlack women are the most loyal of all,\u201d Banks says. \u201cBut they pay a very high price.\u201d\n\nWhat do you think about Banks\u2019 argument? Is it valid or misrepresented?\n\nResource\n\n1. 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It was always the story that, after all the romantic nonsense went away, they found their partner in the most god awful, non-romantic way imaginable. While I still held onto the belief that soul mates and fairy tale romantic stories still existed, I rebuffed these people and their horrible stories. It was always sad to me that they were so jaded and bitter and hurt that they lost faith in the fairy tale. I promised myself back then that I would never lose my fairy tale. prince charming on horse funny\n\nThen over the years, life happened. I got older, hurt, jaded and bitter. And then one day I realized I lost the fairy tale. The hope that my Prince Charming would ride in on his white horse and rescue me from my life disappeared. I no longer wanted a Prince Charming because now I knew that Prince Charming was just looking for the next girl to bang, and would eventually leave me with heartbreak. On the day that it all changed, I finally knew that it was time to let go because I couldn\u2019t take any more devastating heartbreaks. \n\nIt\u2019s going to take a lot of alcohol to get sucked in by him again.\n\nThat day, my fairy tale turned into another lame story, one of the stories I promised never to be. Instead of Prince Charming, I wanted the \u201csafe\u201d guy. I was suddenly open to the guy who liked me, the one who was knocking down my door instead of the other way around. Even though I didn\u2019t like him, he would eventually wear me down and I would start to date him, just like in all those other couples\u2019 stories I heard before. And dating would turn into marriage, and I would learn to love him, and depend on him and rely on him. And I would be \u201chappy\u201d and never look back. I would never long for a fairy tale story again because I was married and happy to someone who treated me like I deserved to be treated.\n\nAnd even though I know a little piece of me dies as I write this, I also know my fragile self cannot take one more heartbreak. In an act of self preservation, I have chosen to kill the fairy tale before the fairy tale kills me.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-01-16","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-01-16","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"KillingPrinceCharming","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-16 10:57:32","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-16 10:57:32","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-01-16\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-01-16\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022KillingPrinceCharming\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-16 10:57:32\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-16 10:57:32\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?KillingPrinceCharming"},"AlphaDominantMen":{"bf_titre":"alpha\/dominant men","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jsGp8s When Do You Walk Away]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40HiScz It Is All Facebook\u2019s Fault\u2026]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cglp4i How To Be Single at Your 10 Year Reunion]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4au1kUw Are One Night Stands Bad?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4atLN7j The Truth About Free Dating Sites]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jBE7nQ Writing Good Loveawake.com Emails]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4au87gZ Taking it Slow vs Taking it Nowhere]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40HQffC 26 Things I\u2019ve Learned About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40Ht4SB Being Selfish in A Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40EpmJo Signs of a Douchebag]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40JgF0c Rules for a Skype Date]]\n\n\n(So whenever a feminist tries to argue against women wanting alpha\/dominant men by referring to studies where both women and men show preferences for kind men, throw this study in their face. Also can be used to argue against feminists who say that there is no difference in men and women\u2019s attraction to kindness in their partners.)\n\n\non March 30, 2012 at 2:26 pm | Reply(R)Evoluzione.\nEpic science comment. It looks like you\u2019ve been reading Eric Barker.\n\n\non March 30, 2012 at 7:56 am | ReplyRex\nWhen I ignore a girl after a few days, she starts acting really bitchy, and then clingy, saying things like \u201cIf you don\u2019t want to see me just tell me. You can tell me, its cool\u201d. Any ideas of a response?\n\nI said just, \u201cNah, you\u2019re cool\u201d. But then she just started acting awkward.\n\n\non March 30, 2012 at 2:35 pm | ReplyHolden Caulfield\nBring da movies.\n\n\non March 30, 2012 at 11:36 am | ReplyAnonymous\nOf course everyone here has seen the Huffington Post article by the 34 year old Natasha Scripture in New York who can\u2019t find a good man (while trashing a 51 year old she was set up on a date with by a matchmaker for having had a slight speech impediment, for wearing bell bottom jeans on the date and for having a career as only a science textbook writer).\n\nA lot of manosphere denizens are in the comment section which is already close to 1600 comments.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-22","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-22","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"AlphaDominantMen","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-22 10:39:06","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-22 10:39:06","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-22\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-22\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022AlphaDominantMen\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-22 10:39:06\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-22 10:39:06\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?AlphaDominantMen"},"YouHaveToLoveYourOwnLifeFirst":{"bf_titre":"You Have to Love Your Own Life First","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h3MvdW Should Single Guys Use Emoticons]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3EiEFyw Leaving the Ghosts of an Ex Behind]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4haQ6Ho Bitchiness as a Defense Mechanism: Lessons from Blogging About My Ex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h52uZq Can You be Friends With an Ex?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gdcbUr The Men We Know We Have No Future With\u2026]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ocvJY Men Who Ghost Before the First Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40sSTUX No Strings Attached is Bullshit.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Wvgp2u Do Women Really Want Equality In Relationships?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40xMbx9 Your Best Friend the Hag]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40vx4Eb Why Being Single Doesn\u2019t Suck]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40qt4oJ Rules For Hanging Out With Your Ex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gaFyGD How to Approach Guys in a Bar]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40r6vjH How NOT to Approach A Guy In A Bar]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40r6wUN 8 Facts about Cheating]]\n\nLots of times people ask me \u201cWhat do I need to do to find Mr\/Ms Right.\u201d\n\nThey get this look on their face\u2026somewhere between ardent curiosity and abject desperation.  I tell them to relax. First, you have to relax.\n\nThen, stop and take a good look around. How is the rest of your life going?\n\nWhat\u2019s going well?  What do you need to improve? What story are you telling yourself about your life, and your ability to find your perfect mate?\n\nHere are some areas to look at:\n\n1) Your Financial Situation. Are you stable? Do you have a plan? Are you handling your money the way you\u2019d want Mr or Ms Right to handle theirs? If the answer is NO, then begin to take steps to handle your own money in a way that you respect. Like attracts like\u2026so be LIKE that person you wish to attract.\n\n2) Your Fun Factor Where are you in terms of actually enjoying your life? Do you have a circle of friends? Hobbies, Interests and Passions? Can you carry on a conversation about something you actually care about? are you Laughing? Doing things that push you out of your comfort zone and into a growth mode?\n\n3). Your Career Are you happy with your work? Energized?  If the answer is yes, then you\u2019re way ahead of 80% of the American population. If the answer is no, explore what you can do to feel better about your work. Or at least find some reasons to be grateful for the job you do have.  It\u2019s a big turnoff to a prospective mate to meet someone who is miserable from 8 to 5 every day.\n\n4) Your Physical and Spiritual Health Are you happy with your health habits? Could you be taking better care of yourself? If you were to share your physical and spiritual health routines with a prospective mate, would you feel proud?\n\n5) Your Home And this is a big one. Whether you want to study Feng Shui and learn about why clutter holds you back, or the more modern version of clutter busting strategies\u2026that\u2019s up to you. The idea is this:  Does you home accurately reflect you and how you want to present yourself?  When you meet Mr or Ms Right, will there, literally, be SPACE for them?\n\nStart to take a look at all of the areas of your life, and make an honest assessment of where you are.  Like attracts Like. Be The Mate You Wish To See, and you\u2019ll be in a much better position to meet someone that\u2019s just perfect for you.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-30","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-30","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"YouHaveToLoveYourOwnLifeFirst","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-30 10:18:08","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-30 10:18:08","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-30\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-30\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022YouHaveToLoveYourOwnLifeFirst\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-30 10:18:08\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-30 10:18:08\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?YouHaveToLoveYourOwnLifeFirst"},"FacebookIsAmazing":{"bf_titre":"Facebook is Amazing","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PUzibD Do You Reveal Too Much About Your Relationship?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jAI7F3 Be Yourself: The Truth About Authentic Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PTX0om Why So Many Relationships End at 90 Days]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cx3eau There really are NO BAD DATES!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hA2IY5 How The Law of Attraction Can Help You Find Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CzmynB A Dude Diner\u2019s Doctrine]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WFjjSC Soundtrax To Your Life: Pre-Date Tunes]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PX4ve9 Ms. Awesome\u2019s Advice for Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WJVo4f Bad Relationships Aren\u2019t Investments]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WFLKja How To Get A One Nite Stand Out Of Your Apartment]]\n\nJust a quick story, broken down in bullet points:\n\nHalloween, I met a bunch of girls, got a bunch of phone numbers.\nI pre-gamed with Four Lokos and continued to stop in bars for beers while out.\nI didn\u2019t remember what half of the chicks whose numbers I got looked like the next day.\nI mass texted them a few weeks later and tried to add them on Facebook.\nOne of them, who responded the best to my text, turned out to be a very attractive black girl.\nI never texted her or anything again.\nI ran into her a few weeks ago when I was in town.\nIt was a Friday night, I wasn\u2019t sure she\u2019d recognize me.\nShe was walking past with a group of friends and I just got in her way and pointed at her.\nHer eyes lit up and she smiled real big.\nShe hugged me.\nNext thing you know, she was all over me.\nI would\u2019ve never recognized her if I had never looked at her Facebook pictures.\nI don\u2019t even remember actually meeting her \u2013 just having her phone number afterwards and knowing that I did meet her on Halloween.\nAfter running into her again, I texted her the next day\u2026. I\u2019ll pick up here\u2026\nMe, Sat, 12:20 pm:  Wasup [her name]?  It was good running into last night\u2026 enjoy work while the rest of us party all day at [event]\n\nHer, Sat, 12:44 pm:  Who is this?\n\nMe, 1:18 pm:  [WW]\n\nHer, 1:19 pm:  Who?\n\nMe, 1:20 pm:  The cute ass white boy.  What you know me as [WW] or [Wonka]?\n\nHer, 1:21 pm:  [Wonka].  Lol.\n\nMe, 1:31 pm:  I didn\u2019t realize you were so short!   I hope you weren\u2019t wearing heels\u2026 but you were looking cute tho\n\nHer, 1:33 pm:  Yeah.  I am 5\u20193.  I\u2019m tiny.lol.  I didn\u2019t wear heels.   I was just in chill mode.  Didn\u2019t feel like dressing up\n\nMe, 1:47 pm:  I feel ya.  What time you get off work?\n\nHer, 1:47 pm:  6:30\n\nMe, 1:51 pm:  Ok.  Text me when you get off then\u2026 I\u2019ll be downtown somewhere, come grab a drink with me and chill for a bit\n\nHer, 1:53 pm:  Ok.  I will do that.  U know what\n\nMe, 1:59 pm:  What\u2019s that?\n\nHer, 1:59 pm:  U remind me of robin thicke.  Lol\n\nShe actually wound up flaking that night\u2026which wasn\u2019t too surprising \u2013 the calibration was off, and there was no real comfort or rapport, and logistically she didn\u2019t know where I was and who I was with, just that I was downtown somewhere, at some party.  But that\u2019s not the point.   The point is she\u2019s hot as shit and she was all over me, and the only way we recognized each other is because we\u2019re Facebook friends.\n\nI\u2019ve texted her and called her a couple of times since then\u2026 building the comfort now\u2026\n\nShe\u2019s pretty into me too, she\u2019s on my romantic radar now.\n\nAnyway, back to what Facebook is and can do:\n\nIt\u2019s great at keeping girls in the loop, if you do it right.\n\nI made some changes to my profile after Krauser and Jambone looked at it in London.   The profile itself should basically be a little DHV\u2019s and attraction triggers.  No, you\u2019re probably not going to create attraction in a girl just off of your Facebook profile, but if you create attraction when you meet her, and then have a good profile that piques her interest a bit, you\u2019re much better off.\n\nThen, it\u2019s a great place to run game on chicks in chat, and even a bit in messages.  Chat being the better of the two of course.. but some girls are never logged in, so you gotta keep em engaged back and forth a bit through messages first.\n\nI think Facebook is particularly better than texting for sets where you didn\u2019t really get a lot of time in with the girl when you meet her.   Yeah, if you read Mystery Method or Bang, they make it sound like you need to be in set with a girl for like 2 hours the night you meet her, but that\u2019s not always the case.  Some sets can go really well and only last 5 minutes \u2013 especially in day game.  So, you\u2019re obviously going to need to build more with these girls.\n\nIt\u2019s harder to do that on text, because you don\u2019t have much to go on besides callback humor.  In a Facebook chat, there\u2019s more new things to tease her about \u2013 recent photos, recent statuses, the funny name of the school she went to, whatever.  You can also easily pull in photos and videos off of Google images or Youtube to quickly create some humor and add a lot of interaction to the chat.  A picture is worth a thousand words, right?\n\nAnyway\u2026 this is my goal for Facebook now.  To keep girls in the loop, to keep them on my romantic radar.  Plus, when they look through my pictures and stuff, that also adds to the comfort and rapport and helps them to feel like they know me better \u2013 like the girl, who I\u2019ll call Short Model, in the earlier story.  She wouldn\u2019t have been all over me like that had she not looked through my photos on Facebook before and got a sense that she knows me a little bit, eventhough we\u2019ve never actually talked.\n\nWe talk now though.   She calls me almost as much as Ghetto Club does\u2026.\n\nI\u2019ll slow game her a bit, but I\u2019ll say more about that in tomorrow\u2019s post.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-31","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-31","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FacebookIsAmazing","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-31 11:03:37","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-31 11:03:37","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-31\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-31\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FacebookIsAmazing\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-31 11:03:37\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-31 11:03:37\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?FacebookIsAmazing"},"YouAreDefinitelyDeadOn":{"bf_titre":"You are definitely dead on.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/413MsYW Why Sex Talk On a First Date Is a Bad Idea]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/411Tqxz Is He Interested or Just An Attention Whore?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k7QQiq Never Give a Man More Credit Then He\u2019s Earned]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gLPp63 Stop Accepting Bad Behavior From Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/416nl7B When Do You Ask A Guy If Things Are Serious?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k3jAsi Is She Doomed To End Up Alone?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/412YrGe Why The \u201cHot\u201d People In This Article Aren\u2019t Worth Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ETV78F When You Get Dumped Sometimes You\u2019re To Blame, Too]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41np1uM Never Double Down On A Guy Who Can\u2019t Guarantee He\u2019ll Stick Around]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k29kRb How To Deal With The Push Pull Guy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gPGoZZ Who Has More Luck Online \u2013 Men or Women?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k3jCAq The Tell Tale Tatt]]\n\n\nExactly! Everything is perfect upfront. Then when she\u2019s hooked, the bad behavior comes out. That\u2019s why both parties rush in to this. The other person in the relationship is usually really insecure and fears their \u201cbad\u201d behavior will come to light too, so they jump at the chance for commitment. This guy has all the things women say they want. An insecure woman or a woman who is anxious to lock a guy down is going to fall for this hook, line and sinker.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 47 Thumb down 15\n\nReply\n\n\nwishing u well Says:\nJanuary 16th, 2012 at 10:28 am\nYou are definitely dead on. What I should have included as well (hope the OP reads this too) is that at the time that I went through this, I was having a moment of insecurity based on other things that were happening in my life. I had reached a point in which I started to doubt myself on some levels. Even though I was in the process of working on solutions to the problems I was facing, I felt I needed a \u201cbright spot\u201d in my life. It seems as if the wrong kind of men can almost smell the vulnerability at times. What helped is the fact that I\u2019m a person who does what she says and expect others to do the same if they want to be in my life as a potential partner. So when actions changed and the mirage cleared, I left. But my insecurity at the time is what caused me to overlook the red flags \u2013 choosing instead to act on the \u201chope\u201d that \u201cmaybe this will be real\u201d and made the poor decision to give him a chance. Not my smartest moment, but hey, you live and you learn.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 45 Thumb down 1\n\nReply\n\n\nAndthatswhyyouresingle Says:\nJanuary 16th, 2012 at 10:31 am\nWhile I agree that the men can pick up on a woman\u2019s vulnerability, I think initially the woman meets a man who she believes is out of her league (so she thinks) and pursues him because of that. That\u2019s all tied to the insecurity and vulnerability. Having that man in her life validates her and helps her deal with her insecurity.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-02-19","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-02-19","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"YouAreDefinitelyDeadOn","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-19 10:39:22","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-02-19 10:39:22","user":"66.249.70.35","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-02-19\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-02-19\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022YouAreDefinitelyDeadOn\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-19 10:39:22\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-02-19 10:39:22\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?YouAreDefinitelyDeadOn"},"FinancialStressAndDivorceWhenMoneyProblem":{"bf_titre":"Financial Stress and Divorce When Money Problems Become Marriage Problems","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XxahaL I Travel The World. Alone.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/415f5F2 An Internal Monologue While Perusing Online Dating Matches]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QqhiWQ How To Hook Up In A Hostel \u0435\u0441\u0442\u044c 100 \u0434\u0443\u0431\u043b\u0438\u043a\u0430\u0442 \u043d\u0430 frisky ]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/414BBhs How Do You Know When You\u2019re Ready To Vacation Together?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CZqf6b How To Enjoy Travelling When You\u2019re Not On Your Honeymoon]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4k3LvIK I Fantasize About Other Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i4DDVI Why It\u2019s Easier To Meet Men On Vacation \u0435\u0441\u0442\u044c 100 \u0434\u0443\u0431\u043b\u0438\u043a\u0430\u0442 \u043d\u0430 frisky ]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/417xX6l If You\u2019re 300,000 Miles Away, Don\u2019t Call Your New Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i5sunl Will Our Marriage Survive Our First Road Trip Together?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i91MKN When On Vacation ... Just Say Yes]]\n\nAndthatswhyyouresingle Says:\nJanuary 17th, 2012 at 2:41 pm\nForget about 6-8 weeks. This woman issued the \u201csex for committment\u201d ultimatum after only a week and he agreed. There\u2019s nothing healthy about that. No self-respecting guy does that unless he\u2019s desperate or has an ulterior motive. Color me pessimistic.\n\nThis guy is a Grade A fraudster who\u2019s taking advantage of the fact that this woman is new in town, has no real support system and no real social life. Which means she has no friends warning her or looking out for her. He is the center of her world.\n\nShe\u2019ll do whatever he wants because he fits the profile \u2013 rich, handsome, a \u201cCEO\u201d (a nice bullshit title that self-employed people like to give themselves so they can sound more impressive) and eager to commit.\n\nHot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 16 Thumb down 10\n\nReply\n\n\nDrivingMeNutes Says:\nJanuary 17th, 2012 at 3:32 pm\nAgree about the CEO title, unless it\u2019s given to you by a disinterested board of directors. And, you can take my word for it because, although I don\u2019t have the credibility normally reserved for famed radio personalities in happy long term relationships, I am the Emperor of a nice Pile of Dirt.\n\nHot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 11 Thumb down 2\n\nReply\n\n\nCrotch Rocket Says:\nJanuary 18th, 2012 at 11:12 am\n\u201cNo self-respecting guy does that unless he\u2019s desperate or has an ulterior motive.\u201d Or he could simply be lying. After all, they\u2019d only known each other a week; she has no reasonable basis to conclude this \u201ccommitment\u201d meant anything because there hadn\u2019t been enough time for him (or her, for that matter) to establish a track record of honesty.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-02-21","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-02-21","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FinancialStressAndDivorceWhenMoneyProblem","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-21 10:33:02","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-02-21 10:33:02","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-02-21\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-02-21\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FinancialStressAndDivorceWhenMoneyProblem\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-21 10:33:02\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-02-21 10:33:02\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?FinancialStressAndDivorceWhenMoneyProblem"},"IRecentlyFoundOutMyHusbandWasOnThisSit":{"bf_titre":"I recently found out my husband was on this site","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3D2ANld The Top 10 White Lies People Tell In Online Dating Profiles]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41vh1rX Things I Wish I Knew About Dating When I Was 22]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iep6qp 8 Reasons You\u2019re Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ig4Bth Let\u2019s Talk About Negging]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gVXpl6 What Are Your Pre-Date Nerves?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41wln26 10 Things You Should Never Say To A Man In Bed]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3F5nNM3 8 Things Men Want Women To Do In Bed]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41uRW04 9 Things I Dread About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gVqFZq I Wasn\u2019t Jewish Enough]]\n\nBut it is what it is. New pussy was the single most exciting thing that has happened to me since the last time I had new pussy so many years ago. It was great just because it was different. I needed it like you need a massage or a vacation every so often. Being balls deep in another woman just for the sake of it was the thrill of a lifetime. I\u2019ll definitely do it again sometime if I have the chance. No regrets but not down on family life either. In fact, I\u2019m totally rejuvenated and looking forward to those never-ending travel team baseball games.\n\nBilly had a mistress down on \u201cA\u201d and 12th\nShe was that little somethin\u2019 that he did for himself\nHis own little secret didn\u2019t hurt nobody\u2026\n\nDr. Rosenpenis5 years agoReply\nI recently found out my husband was on this site, hes either a liar or these women are just as foul if hes on here hooking up! well obviously a liar, but its disgusting to me that people would do this, how do you explain yourself to the \u201chook up\u201d wouldnt a person feel like a giant pile of crap doing this and lying about it to themselves, their family and the new found friend, and if honest, these women need to realize that \u201cnot finding any decent men\u201d is maybe more their fault than they think!\n\nED4 years agoReply\nYou are a judgmental bitch.\n\nHave you been in a long marriage where you love your spouse, but they are always tired, distant, cold, unfeeling? Have you ever watched your relationship deteriorate into polite hellos and good nights\u2026.? Have you ever sacrificed your own happiness to save your children the hardship of a divorce. Have you ever waited through years of sadness just to keep your family together, because you love them too much to leave\u2026no matter what you are treated like? Have you? If you haven\u2019t then get off your high horse. Yes, maybe Tinder isn\u2019t the best idea for a married man, but sometimes it takes getting caught to start the ending that his marriage obviously needed. Instead of making him feel bad and telling him he was creepy and that you and your friends were laughing at him, why not simply ignore him?\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2025-02-25","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2025-02-25","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"IRecentlyFoundOutMyHusbandWasOnThisSit","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-25 10:31:26","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-02-25 10:31:26","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222025-02-25\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222025-02-25\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022IRecentlyFoundOutMyHusbandWasOnThisSit\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-25 10:31:26\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-02-25 10:31:26\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?IRecentlyFoundOutMyHusbandWasOnThisSit"},"FindingLoveOrJustValidationTheRealReason":{"bf_titre":"Finding Love or Just Validation The Real Reason People Use Dating Apps","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QWSfe6 We\u2019re All Slutty For The Right Guy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QXZa6L Dear Men: This Is Why Loyalty Is So Important To Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XLbF9B How Do You Avoid Dating a Liberal\/Conservative?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41EVtI7 Are You Looking For Fast Love Too?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FhnSwB Should You Fake an Active Lifestyle for Love?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Ffy1tE When a Relationship Feels Like a Secret Mission]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41HLdPc Pushing Through It]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bIFWvv Embracing The Unexpected Path Of Singlehood]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DzQ6SD Why Is It So Hard to Believe Someone Might Stay?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XDyxI4 Am I Crazy Or Is He A Hot Mess?]]\n\n\nComments? Thoughts? This is based on science and careful study but I\u2019m always open to postulation.\n\nMore often than not, men and women are  ships passing in the night, never quite existing on the same level. This phenom is the subject of endless study and speculation, but never is it more the case than at the beginning of a courtship \u2013 such a delicate period of wide error margins and tricky variables.\n\nSounds like a job for math and statistics, and it is. I introduce to the world the Rothman graph (fig. A). Let me break it down. The Level of Interest is the amount of interest and enthusiasm (sexual or otherwise) each has for the other. The Level of Familiarity is how well they know each other, defined by time.\n\nYou will quickly notice the extreme distance between the man and woman on the level of interest in the beginning: the woman is on the lowest level while the man is that the very top. This is because men, generally stimulated and driven by visual stimuli, believes from the beginning that she is perfect for him \u2013 even though he knows nothing about her.  She\u2019s hot, she\u2019s the one. Period.\n\nWomen, however, reserve interest in the beginning; their levels rise only with time and familiarity. Indeed, she needs to know \u201cthe real\u201d him, and interest is yoked to time. So the disconnect here is obvious and, much of the time, irreconcilable; the results then are all too predictable.\n\nThey only come together, literally, upon conception; almost immediately after each takes their, sharp dramatic turn in opposite trajectories. Ironically, the end result is mutual \u2013 utter confusion.  But we now understand there is nothing to be confused about, and can only hope that lightning strikes and the warring opposites get set on the same (or at least similar) course.\n\nComments? Thoughts? This is based on science and careful study but I\u2019m always open to postulation.Good Things: stability; predictable haircut; calculating manner that can apply to other aspects of life in positive ways, for example sex; always on time; will never cheat on you.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-11","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-11","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FindingLoveOrJustValidationTheRealReason","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-11 17:34:14","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-11 17:34:14","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-11\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-11\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FindingLoveOrJustValidationTheRealReason\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-11 17:34:14\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-11 17:34:14\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?FindingLoveOrJustValidationTheRealReason"},"WhatToDoWhenYouFeelUnappreciatedInYour":{"bf_titre":"What to Do When You Feel Unappreciated in Your Marriage","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FzAU8H He Cheats on Me During Business Trips]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybJUa He Cheated with a Woman from the Gym]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybKrc He Dotes On His Son and Ignores Me]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kUHFSz He Didn\u0027t Know How to Listen to Her]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/43N1QM8 He Flirts Too Much]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Dx1wGV Marriage Advice: 13 Lessons]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XV0kDU Separate Vacations Don\u2019t Have to Mean Divorce]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DyQ39M Are Soul Mates Fact or Fiction?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybNTU Love vs. Parenthood: When the Perfect Partner Doesn\u2019t Want Kids]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kUHHKb Caring for Dad Is Destroying My Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DJU37i First Date: Who Pays and What It Really Means]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Dv3Kqg Dating a Dad: When You Like Him But Not His Kid]]\n\nCali Bradshaw\nOctober 11, 2011 at 6:17 pm #\nWith all due respect, this statement is moronic. You left out a key aspect of prostitution\u2026. the exchange of sex. But in any case, for the one millionth time, I am not saying a guy has to pay. I simply wrote this post to explain why woman want to be paid for, in the hopes of helping guys who sometimes feel like they just don\u2019t understand us. You can call me\/us anything you want, but it doesn\u2019t change the fact that a lot of woman feel this way.\n\nReply\n\nMark\nMarch 27, 2012 at 12:51 pm #\n\u201cYou can call me\/us anything you want, but it doesn\u2019t change the fact that a lot of woman feel this way.\u201d\n\nFair enough. And a lot of men want women to be submissive houswives who cook, clean and provide sex when it\u2019s requested.\n\nYou can call me\/us anything you want, but it doesn\u2019t change the fact that a lot of men feel this way.\n\nI suppose that disclaimer trumps the sexism in both our expectations of the opposite sex?\n\nReply\n\nZerbu\nOctober 16, 2011 at 11:36 pm #\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-17","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-17","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhatToDoWhenYouFeelUnappreciatedInYour","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-17 16:50:25","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-17 16:50:25","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-17\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-17\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhatToDoWhenYouFeelUnappreciatedInYour\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-17 16:50:25\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-17 16:50:25\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?WhatToDoWhenYouFeelUnappreciatedInYour"},"TheImportanceOfIndividualGrowthWithinAMa":{"bf_titre":"The Importance of Individual Growth Within a Marriage.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DzDL0U He Had an Affair Because I Stopped Initiating Sex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hiX8sN He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DJhz4p He Lost Interest in Our Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hkeh5t Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ie35sj He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I\u0027m Sick of It]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DPhuME Commitment Jitters]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FBCVkF Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4heaIh2 Bi Bi Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42ejPd6 Dealing With Your Partner\u2019s Bedroom Confessions]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DL0vLm Can His Squalor Be Squelched?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/43Zhkwy Asunder Down Under]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iaTwKD Conquering Long Distance Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FBCVBb Coveting a Coworker]]\n\nHot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 8 Thumb down 5\n\nReply\nAndthatswhyyouresingle says:\nFebruary 13, 2012 at 4:10 pm\nWas with first boyfriend 5 years and husband 5 years so that would give me 10 years of long term relationship experience with some fun online and non online dating experiences in between. Is that enough experience for you?\n\nI asked:\n\nWhat adult, mature, healthy relationship experience have you even had?\n\nI\u2019m still waiting for the adult, mature healthy examples. Not some relationship you had as a teenager. You don\u2019t have to answer my question. I\u2019m just trying to point out that you are hardly a poster child for marriage or mature relationships, so you really need to stop trotting out Mr. Buns of Steel who makes great coffee as evidence you do.\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 5 Thumb down 3\n\nReply\nSaj says:\nFebruary 13, 2012 at 5:15 pm\nRofl sorry I\u2019m not as old as you would like me to be. I can\u2019t really do anything about that. But for being 30 years old I think I\u2019ve had quite a lot of long term relationship and dating experience and feel I have a right to my opinion just as much as the anti relationship guys, or the never been in a long term relationship at 40 girls or the girls dating men who still live with their parents. We all have very varied experiences that makes our advice and comments complex.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-03-18","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-03-18","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheImportanceOfIndividualGrowthWithinAMa","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-18 17:28:49","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-18 17:28:49","user":"74.7.242.19","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-03-18\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-03-18\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheImportanceOfIndividualGrowthWithinAMa\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-18 17:28:49\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-18 17:28:49\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?TheImportanceOfIndividualGrowthWithinAMa"},"TinderConfessionsThanksgivingEdition":{"bf_titre":"Tinder Confessions: Thanksgiving Edition","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bCTPeO He Went to War and Came Back a Changed Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XYmpBu Unmasking Hidden Unhappiness in Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hmImRV Workaholic Heartbreak: When Success Costs Your Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kACG9E Recession Realities: When Financial Stress Tests a Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RgepYW When Unemployment Tests Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RhVRaJ Movies That All Women Should See To Understand Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y0Q64V Love Lies and Responsibility]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DTY35d The Dating Mishaps of the Ladies of Love Twenty]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RoJzxb The Black Male Preference Privilege]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RjLaV4 Anatomy of a Great (Reality) Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DQedfU Your Rear End or Your Pride]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y24B8F Why Splitting Costs Isn\u0027t Splitting Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RgxeLs (Broken) Laws of Attraction ]]\n\nWhile my previous posts are from a few months ago, I thought I\u2019d change it up for a special Thanksgiving date I went on recently. You read that right: a Thanksgiving date.\n\nI got a most unusual Tinder message a few days ago:\n\n\n\n\nI was initially hesitant since I had thrilling plans for Saturday like going to the gym, doing laundry and returning a cardigan to Target. Potential Friendsgiving negatives? A super awkward date at a party with strangers, who could also potentially be weird or awkward or boring. And unlike meeting for drinks\u2014the standard first date\u2014there\u2019s a much longer time commitment. Guaranteed positives? Free food and sweatpants. Plus he offered to pick me up. Even easier. After consulting a few friends I decided to just go with it. (side note: I found out later this was actually his very first Tinder date!)\n\nHe picked me up, crockpot of green bean casserole, dessert, and beer ready to go in the back. Clean car. Safe driving. Non-awkward conversation. Everything was looking up.\n\nThen we arrived at the party, and a small wave of panic hit me as I walked in: I was the weirdo from the internet at a random stranger\u2019s party. And this was not a large party, mind you. There were maybe 10 or so people there at the beginning (and around 20 by the end). No escaping or blending in. I got a strange look or two as we walked in, and then I was introduced as the girl from Tinder. To my relief, everyone thought it was funny. A friendly girl offered me a Pilgrim party hat and a glass of wine, and we started chatting away about her experience with some other dating app called Hinge (which I\u2019d never heard of).\n\nEveryone was so nice! And easy to talk to. I almost always hate mingling at parties where I don\u2019t know many people (or no one at all!), but I quickly realized that I actually got along quite well with this group. In fact, being the girl from Tinder became a great conversation starter whenever people asked how I knew my date\u2014we\u2019ll call him Paul. \u201cYou\u2019re here with Paul? How did you meet?\u201d \u201cOh, we met about an hour and a half ago when he picked me up for the party.\u201d Definitely an intriguing start to a conversation. I\u2019d also like to take this moment to dish out a little piece of advice on making friends with fellow females: Compliment and\/or ask her about her hair. \u201cDo you use a wand or a curling iron? I love your hair!\u201d I ask out of genuine curiosity (because I\u2019ve always been a curling iron kinda girl but have considered trying out a wand), but I\u2019ve found it\u2019s a great conversation starter, almost like a pickup line for making friends. And most girls, including myself, can go on and on about hair. Seriously, try it sometime.\n\nBut back to Friendsgiving\u2026\n\nEveryone finally arrived, and the food was all ready to go. We feasted, we lounged, and then someone mentioned some crazy game called Slap the Bag. Apparently it\u2019s a Midwestern drinking game staple (everyone was from the Midwest) but totally foreign to me. It\u2019s very simple: Someone holds a bag of wine while someone else slaps the bag and then chugs the wine for however long they please. Not exactly a \u201cgame,\u201d but, of course, since I\u2019d never \u201cplayed,\u201d they insisted I try it out. I was not disappointed. In fact, I highly recommend it. Who doesn\u2019t want to slap a massive bag of wine and then chug it while being cheered on by a room of newly acquired friends wearing Native American feathered headbands and Pilgrim hats? Definitely the best way to enjoy top-notch bagged wine. Paul was even thoughtful enough to record this important milestone on my own phone so I can relive the moment whenever I want.\n\nAfter a few more slaps, they broke out the beer pong table. I continued bonding with my new friends on the sidelines and even exchanged numbers with one girl before Paul and I took our turn at beer pong. It was not a pretty game for us. But it didn\u2019t matter (because everyone\u2019s a winner in beer pong, right?). It was getting late. We\u2019d been drinking for nearly 7 hours and this point, and eventually Paul and I ended up making out in the kitchen (oops?).\n\nAll in all, it was a great Friendsgiving. Will I see Paul again? Who knows. But I do have plans to hang out with some of my other new friends after Thanksgiving. I\u2019d call that a win!\n\nHappy Thanksgiving Everyone! 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Fulfillment In Modern Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41R8Y7P Demanding Respect and Openness in a Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bVNmvE Get Outta My Dating Pool]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iFRbaL Seeking Clarity and Connection in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4izaKBE Gym Flirting 101]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Yixlv Finding Balance in Love After Loss]]\n\nEarlier today I posted a blog called \u201cEmotional Vampires\u201d and despite the word \u201cvampires\u201d in the title and most people\u2019s aversion to the vampire craze\u2026it got great hits and even better comments! I was moved to continue exploring this topic when I realized that I wasn\u2019t the only one who was plagued by people who drain me.\n\nSometimes I think that it is my lot in life to be that person that everyone goes to when they are having a rough time. It\u2019s not their fault, and I can\u2019t blame them, it\u2019s kind of how I market myself. Not consciously, but all the same, it\u2019s the way I am. I am that caring, understanding, constant ear and shoulder that everyone knows can\u2019t turn them away. I have only recently learned that confrontation and disagreement is not a bad thing. People are used to me taking their shit so they never think twice about laying all their crap at my feet and asking me to fix it. I have always allowed it, so I can\u2019t blame them when they continue to do it.\n\nI was a psychology major in college. I have the degree hanging above my desk and everything, really I do. People fascinate me, they always have. The way people think, interact, engage one another, behave, etc\u2026it\u2019s all so damn interesting to me. I love listening to people share with me and then trying to determine the deeper and baser emotions and contributing issues. I know it\u2019s wrong, but dissecting the situation is fun for me.\n\n\n\n\nI won\u2019t even hide the fact that I judge people. I know it\u2019s not politically correct or acceptable to admit that, but I do. I listen to their problems and then I judge them. I will never betray a confidence. I do not gossip. But, in my head, in my own thoughts I do judge people by what they reveal to me. I know some people will think that this makes me a horrible person but I really do think that all people do this. If you are being honest with yourself, you do form judgments about a person based on their behaviors, interactions with others, and their personality. It\u2019s just a fact of life.\n\nI will also freely admit that because of my history with depression I can sometimes be that emotional vampire that feeds on other people. I don\u2019t want anyone to think that I am professing to be above this. While I often bottle up and deal with issues on my own, try to psychoanalyze myself, I will occasionally need to have an all out bitch fest and seriously bring down the mood. I always feel guilty about this afterwards and apologize with a bottle of wine\u2026so my friends usually don\u2019t mind. J The point here is, while I talk about the people that make me nuts\u2026realize that I am sometimes that exact person. As George stated\u2026the key here is sometimes.\n\nSo, as I read through the comments to my original post I realized that in one way or another everyone has had to deal with these draining, emotional vampires. I think it\u2019s important to be realistic about relationships. Not everyone can be sunshine and rainbows all of the time. I don\u2019t expect them to be. I don\u2019t need you to blow smoke up my ass either. It\u2019s okay to be real. It is okay to need advice, reassurance, and support. I have no problems being that person for you; I love being that person for you.\n\nI do take issue with the people who assume you have nothing better to do with your time than listen to a 2 hour rant about their hideous fortune, bad job, mean boss, ungrateful family, distant boyfriend, yadda, yadda, yadda. If you need to vent, do it, but give me the condensed version and for the love of all things sacred, acknowledge that you know you are bitching and have the good graces to thank me for listening to you drone on. I never vent to people without thanking them for allowing me to get it off my chest and asking them in return how they are holding up and giving them the chance to do the same thing right back. It\u2019s common freaking courtesy. Reciprocate, people!\n\n\n\nIf you are down in the dumps and aware that you are being extra negative then own up to it; don\u2019t act as though there is nothing wrong. I have no problem if you are a bit blue, it happens, but have the decency to say to your friend\/significant other, \u201cHey, I know that I haven\u2019t been myself lately. I am working through it and really appreciate your patience and understanding. If it gets to be too much for you please let me know so we can talk about it.\u201d\n\nIt can be hard to admit that you aren\u2019t the happy go lucky person you wish you could be but it\u2019s important to let the people you love know you appreciate their support. It wasn\u2019t easy for me to realize this. For a long time I thought that if they were my friend they would accept that I was having a hard time regulating my medicine and mood but nobody has to put up with my shit. I realized the stress that my moods put on my relationships and realized that thanks were necessary so that they knew I saw what I was putting them through and appreciated it. I am so blessed that I found writing, journaling, crafting, and laughing was much better medicine than the drugs I was taking and have been able to regulate my moods on my own for about 8 years now. It wasn\u2019t always this easy though. So trust that I understand when you have a rough time, I am not going to walk away, but I do ask that you be aware of your mood and how it affects other people.\n\nI have never enjoyed being the center of attention. I enjoy getting a good laugh from a crowd. I enjoy being active in a conversation and having my voice be heard but I don\u2019t need to be the loudest, most circulated, and talked about person in the room. I am happy to be a part of it all and that\u2019s enough. I know for some people this isn\u2019t enough though. There are certain people that \u201cget off\u201d, for lack of a better word, on being in the middle of it all and having all that attention. To them I have this piece of advice\u2026and yes I know you didn\u2019t ask for it, but here it is.\n\nIt\u2019s fine to want to be heard and occasionally be the center of attention. Nobody is trying to say that\u2019s wrong but do be aware of how often this is the case. It\u2019s important when you are in social situations to gauge how much you are speaking and how much you are listening; to be aware of listening versus active listening. The difference there is that when you listen you vaguely hear what somebody is saying but only enough to register what you want to say in response. When you actively listen to somebody you hear, acknowledge, and process their comments. It is important that you give that person your full attention. If you want others to respect you enough to listen when you speak then do the same for them, which means no cell phones, no checking emails, texting, or looking around the room at everyone but the person speaking.\n\n\n\nAs I have said, I am nowhere near perfect when it comes to being needy sometimes and being moody at others. I don\u2019t expect perfection in my friends. I do expect you to try for a balance, to acknowledge your flaws (as I have mine) and to be open to trying to solve your emotional vampire ways. If it starts to be an issue in a relationship I am having I will not hesitate to tell somebody, \u201cI know that you have been having a hard time lately and I want to be supportive but I need to tell you that I\u2019m having a hard time right now. I find myself listening less actively because I feel like you aren\u2019t reciprocating and I am withdrawing because of it.\u201d I don\u2019t want to end up resenting or ending friendships, so I do ask of my friends that they be open to talks like that. I in return promise to always be open to them as well.\n\nI would hate to think that I was bringing somebody down or being anything less than a stellar friend so I do ask that friends come to me before letting emotions fester. I have had a lot of success with this but it does require a lot of trust and understanding between the two people involved. It\u2019s not always easy to accept criticism about yourself and it\u2019s often even more terrifying to give it to somebody else and risk hurting feelings but I do think it\u2019s essential to some relationships. There are friendships I have never had to worry about doing this in, but if need be I have no qualms about opening up a line of conversation about boundaries and balance.\n\nThis is a whole lot of my own personal opinions and in no way are they set rules, but they do work for me\u2026so hey\u2026they may work for you as well. In the end it comes down to talking with the person versus ending a friendship, and while it is sometimes necessary to end the relationship, I usually prefer to avoid that.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-24","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-24","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"AVampireSequel","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-24 17:45:25","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-24 17:45:25","user":"74.7.243.215","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-24\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-24\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022AVampireSequel\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-24 17:45:25\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-24 17:45:25\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?AVampireSequel"},"SayWhatNow":{"bf_titre":"Say What Now","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j6gN0p How a Meddling Mother Nearly Ruined My Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iU3Cj0 How We Rebuilt Our Marriage Through Therapy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Z9CjH Saving a Marriage After an Affair]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Z9DUN Can Marriage Survive Infidelity?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j5u3lZ Is Your Marriage a Partnership or a Prison?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4l6wdng Keep Him From Walking Out That Door]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4unBq Managing Expectations in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4upcw Why I Believe In Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j21Jkq Dating Advice From Happily Married Couples]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j4dFSB The Man or the Money]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/421UmCz Walk Away From Parental Control in Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iZu4rt When You\u2019re Stuck in the \u201cCasual Dating\u201d Zone]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j3RWKI A Necessary Courtesy or Just Overkill in Online Dating?]]\n\nI was having a conversation the other night with friends about stuff that drives guys crazy. (more on that on later, or not) It got me thinking about things guys do that drive me crazy, and more importantly things guy say that drive me crazy! You know those things you never want to hear a guy say again.\n\nThe following are 10 things I never want to hear another boy say to me (Again)!\n\n1) \u201cYou have a cute little tummy.\u201d\n\nAre you serious right now!? I am like 99.9862% positive you just called me fat.\n\n2) \u201cI forgot how great you are.\u201d\n\nOf course I\u2019m great you tard! I\u2019m amazing in fact, and all that time you spent away\/forgetting me was totally your loss!\n\n3) \u201cIf you also have toast and bacon or sausage that would be great too.\u201d\n\nDude I just made you eggs, fruit, and coffee and this is the first time we\u2019ve had sex. Check yourself! Then check yourself again!\n\n4) \u201cDon\u2019t forget your granny panties.\u201d\n\nThey may or may not fall under the category of \u201cgranny panties\u201d that is irrelevant. All I know is you seemed pretty excited to be seeing them earlier so pay them some respect.\n\n5) \u201cCan I take a shower?\u201d\n\nI\u2019m going to let you cause I\u2019m a good hostess, but No, no you cannot take a shower. Unless we are in a committed relationship or we are spending the whole day together you cannot use my shower and use a perfectly clean towel, or my expensive shampoo. Pick up your dirty clothes put them on and leave.\n\n6) \u201cWe have to lay sideways on the bed or it makes noise.\u201d\n\nOk I get it your bed squeaks when we \u201cmove\u201d, that is cool I can respect that. But if it makes those noises just from a little motion you need to either get a new bed frame or find someone else who is comfortable only \u201cbeing\u201d in one spot.\n\n7) \u201cI\u2019m not really looking for a serious relationship right now.\u201d\n\nDude! Did you hear me at anytime say I was? Wow, you\u2019re great and all, but your heads getting big. I like you and you interest me that is all\u2026. Nobody mentioned a relationship and I sure as hell didn\u2019t mention babies!\n\n8) \u201cThat was my ex girlfriends I just haven\u2019t gotten around to throwing it out.\u201d\n\nPlease note if you have been out of a relationship more then 2weeks your apartment should Not include the following: makeup, nail polish, jewelry which obviously cost less the $20, female deodorant, a curling or flat iron, or tampons.  (Also, unless you guys lived together your apartment should never include the above)\n\n9) \u201cAre you going to write about me?\u201d\n\nOnly when you say stupid ass stuff like that, Einstein! I\u2019m spending time with you which means I probably like you enough to not subject you to being mentioned in a silly blog, or I will write about you once you become a douche-bag.\n\n10) \u201cWhat do you like to do for fun?\u201d\n\nI\u2019m here right now and I was having fun until you started asking stupid questions like that.\n\n(reason #___why I\u2019m single: I can\u2019t control my eye rolls when people say stupid things.)\n\nSIDEBAR: I also have no desire to get into someone else\u2019s dirty shower.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2025-03-26","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2025-03-26","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SayWhatNow","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-26 17:16:55","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-26 17:16:55","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222025-03-26\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222025-03-26\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SayWhatNow\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-26 17:16:55\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-26 17:16:55\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?SayWhatNow"},"WhoacalmDownCrazy":{"bf_titre":"Whoa\u2026calm down crazy.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j71lkI Marriage vs. Addiction: Winning the Battle for Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y176Ig Marriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RlpxUo Holding On or Letting Go: When Addiction Tests a Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QRZeFf The Marriage We Almost Lost: How Unemployment Changed Everything]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DWXmIn Marriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DUscBy He Seemed Interested. So Why Didn\u2019t He Call?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j5nIH7 Online Dating Isn\u2019t Desperation]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iRfgeP Changing Your Dating Approach]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c3yRWJ Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iXYkD2 Dating Someone With Debt]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41JHmCI Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Xw23iW The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DTawpM How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray]]\n\n\nHe\u2019ll take that olive branch because he gets to stop feeling all that social pressure, and now you\u2019re bros.\n\nThis is REALLY powerful. You would be surprised how many people, guys, girls, hot girls, tough MMA type guys, etc. will cave to social pressure and how much power you have when you can consciously wield that social pressure. It\u2019s fascinating.\n\n\u201cMe: Whoa\u2026calm down crazy.\u201d\n\nhaha a good response to neutralize her shit. You\u2019re basically still leading the conversation like \u201ccalm your tits woman, we\u2019re all just talking here, it\u2019s fine.\u201d and re-enforcing your frame that what you\u2019re doing isn\u2019t weird.\n\nBut it doesn\u2019t quite win her over:\n\n\u201c5.5 was annoyed\u201d\n\nBecause there\u2019s no olive branch and you don\u2019t give her an excuse for her actions that she can latch onto to keep the \u201cI\u2019m not a shitty human being who acted badly earlier\u201d frame in her mind. Know what I mean? This is a really subtle thing but really important when it comes to running group theory game which is something you\u2019re going to be doing a lot of, so if it doesn\u2019t make complete sense, let me know and I can try to elaborate further.\n\nNotice in my other post I mentioned that for a short guy, it\u2019s better for you to be approaching groups with hot girls in them, because you get a chance to demonstrate your value, THEN you can zero in on a target and escalate from there. Being short, you\u2019re approaching with a deficit of value in their stereotypical view of the world, so if you go direct you don\u2019t get a chance to demonstrate how awesome you are\u2026but when you jump into the gladiator ring and go head to head with some lions (aka shit-tests, her bitchy friends, etc.) and come out victorious, NOW you have high-value.\n\nImagine if, at this point, a hot shooter girl you always flirt with, comes over and grabs you and flirts with you. What would THAT do to the dynamics of this group where you\u2019ve won them over and shown enough value for the 7 and 7.5 to approve of you and you know the 7 is a little bit interested (there\u2019s a spark there, as evidenced by her throwing you a sword earlier, and her asking your name before she goes later)? Then imagine your buddy brings you a beer, because you\u2019re so pimp that your buddies supplicate to you? Then imagine the manager of the bar goes \u201cScray!! What\u2019s up man! Hey girls, watch out for this guy, he\u2019s trouble! ;) \u201d and buys the table a round of shots.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhoacalmDownCrazy","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-27 17:45:23","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-27 17:45:23","user":"74.7.227.131","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-27\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-27\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhoacalmDownCrazy\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-27 17:45:23\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-27 17:45:23\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?WhoacalmDownCrazy"},"AYes136ANo137AndAMaybe":{"bf_titre":"Phishing SMS and Netflix: What You Need to Know","bf_description":"In today\u0027s digital age, streaming services like Netflix have become an essential part of our entertainment experience. However, issues with Netflix, including Netflix not working, frequent crashes, or slow Netflix streams, can be frustrating. Meanwhile, another growing concern is the rise of phishing SMS messages targeting unsuspecting users. In this article, we\u0027ll explore how these two issues intersect, offering tips on how to deal with common Netflix problems and avoid falling for phishing scams.\n\nPhishing SMS and Netflix Accounts\n[phishing sms netflix](https:\/\/www.contactsupportgroup.com\/netflix-scam-text\/) have become an increasingly prevalent way for cybercriminals to steal personal information. Phishing SMS messages are text messages that appear legitimate but are designed to deceive you into revealing sensitive data, such as your login credentials, payment information, or personal identity details.\n\nFor Netflix users, phishing SMS often masquerades as a service alert or warning about your account. For example, you might receive a message claiming that your Netflix account has been suspended due to suspicious activity and that you need to click a link to verify your account or update payment information. These messages can seem official and may even use Netflix\u0027s logo or other recognizable elements. However, they are usually malicious, aiming to steal your login credentials or infect your device with malware.\n\nIf you ever receive such a message, it\u0027s crucial to avoid clicking on any links or providing any personal information. Instead, always visit the Netflix website directly or open the Netflix app to check your account status.\n\n[why does my netflix keep crashing](https:\/\/www.contactsupportgroup.com\/netflix-keeps-crashing\/)?\nOne common issue Netflix users face is the app or website frequently crashing. Netflix not working can occur for various reasons, and knowing how to fix it is essential. A variety of factors could be at play:\n\nDevice Compatibility: Sometimes, Netflix may not be compatible with older devices or operating systems. If you find that your Netflix app keeps crashing, ensure that both your device and app are updated to the latest versions.\n\nPoor Internet Connection: A weak or fluctuating internet connection can lead to Netflix streaming issues, including constant crashes. Check your Wi-Fi connection speed and ensure that your internet bandwidth is sufficient for streaming HD or 4K content.\n\nCache or App Bugs: Over time, the app\u0027s cache might accumulate corrupted data, which can result in Netflix crashing unexpectedly. Clearing the app cache or reinstalling the app can often resolve these issues.\n\nOutdated App or Browser: If you are using Netflix on a browser or an app, make sure you\u0027re using the latest version. Older versions of the app or browser may be incompatible with Netflix\u2019s latest updates, leading to crashes.\n\n[netflix streams slow](https:\/\/www.contactsupportgroup.com\/netflix-streaming-issues\/): Causes and Fixes\nAnother common complaint among Netflix users is slow Netflix streams. Watching a show or movie on Netflix only to encounter constant buffering can ruin your viewing experience. Several factors contribute to slow streaming on Netflix, and understanding them can help improve your experience:\n\nInternet Speed: One of the most common causes of slow Netflix streams is an insufficient internet connection. Netflix recommends at least 3 Mbps for SD quality, 5 Mbps for HD, and 25 Mbps for 4K streaming. Check your internet speed and, if possible, switch to a higher-speed plan to improve performance.\n\nNetwork Congestion: Sometimes, slow Netflix streams occur because many devices are connected to your home network, consuming bandwidth. Try limiting the number of devices connected or prioritize your streaming device to enhance performance.\n\nNetflix Server Issues: Occasionally, Netflix servers themselves may experience issues, leading to slow streaming for all users in a particular region. If you notice Netflix streaming issues across multiple devices, it may be worth checking Netflix\u2019s official Twitter account or service status page for updates.\n\nRouter Settings: The type of Wi-Fi router you\u0027re using can also affect streaming speeds. Older routers might not support the speeds required for smooth Netflix viewing. Consider upgrading to a newer router that supports higher speeds and better signal strength.\n\nProtecting Yourself from Phishing SMS\nAs phishing scams become more sophisticated, it\u0027s important to take proactive steps to safeguard your Netflix account and personal information. Here are some tips to protect yourself from phishing SMS:\n\nDon\u0027t Trust Unknown Senders: Always be cautious of unsolicited messages. Phishing SMS messages often appear to come from Netflix or other trusted companies but are from unknown numbers.\n\nEnable Two-Factor Authentication (2FA): Netflix supports two-factor authentication, which can add an extra layer of security to your account. Enabling 2FA will make it harder for hackers to access your account, even if they obtain your login details.\n\nLook for Red Flags: Phishing messages often contain subtle red flags, such as urgent language, spelling errors, or suspicious links. Avoid clicking on links in these messages, and always navigate directly to the official Netflix website if you\u0027re uncertain.\n\nUse Security Software: Keep your devices protected with up-to-date antivirus or anti-malware software. These tools can help detect malicious links or attachments in phishing SMS messages.\n\nConclusion\nDealing with issues like [netflix does not work](https:\/\/www.contactsupportgroup.com\/netflix-not-working\/), Netflix crashes, or slow Netflix streams can be frustrating, but most of the time, these problems are fixable with a few simple troubleshooting steps. At the same time, it\u0027s important to stay vigilant against phishing SMS scams that could compromise your Netflix account and personal data. By following best practices for account security and staying aware of common phishing techniques, you can ensure a safer and smoother Netflix experience.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-04-02","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-04-02","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"AYes136ANo137AndAMaybe","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_creation_fiche":"2025-04-02 09:24:07","statut_fiche":"1","date_maj_fiche":"2025-05-05 07:54:19","user":"74.7.227.133","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-04-02\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-04-02\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022AYes136ANo137AndAMaybe\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-04-02 09:24:07\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-05-05 07:54:19\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?AYes136ANo137AndAMaybe"},"AGoodDistraction":{"bf_titre":"A good distraction","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FVZIYL There\u2019s No Such Thing as a \u201cGood\u201d or \u201cBad\u201d Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42gjkht A Married Man Needs Only 3 Things From His Wife]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42jsSIT I Am Not The Caretaker of My Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i743Wl 10 Guilty Pleasures For Couples]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/425v9bN The Man Behind How I Have It All]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jgcuPW 14 Ways Having Kids Affects Your Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jpgSMN Love Rewards the Brave]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i6g1iQ The Book That Changed the Way I Look at Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4coeB2b When Divorce Runs in the Family]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4cmPMDP The Silence That Can Save Your Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4jntAeQ Is It Ever OK to Lie to Your Spouse?]]\n\nThe day after my first date with the adorable Teen Crush*, he texted that he had a wonderful night, and was \u0022really\u0022 looking forward to seeing me again. Very giddy-making indeed! After a few text exchanges, we set up a date for this weekend. I\u0027m smiling now just thinking about him.\n\nAfter what felt like an interminable wait, (a few days after our last date) I got a typically understated e-mail from UN. In the past, I think it\u0027s been about 50\/50 in terms of who\u0027s initiated contact -- this time, I decided that it would be him, as a way of trying to gauge his interest. I shocked myself with my self-restraint -- either I\u0027m getting stronger, OR I\u0027m finding it easier now that there\u0027s another potential interest in the picture. So now we\u0027re in planning limbo, as we try to sort out our schedules and figure out when we can get together. I\u0027m still planning to have \u0022the talk\u0022!\n\n\n* Please note: I do NOT have a crush on a teenager! See previous post for blog name explanation.\n\n*****\nfirst date with [[https:\/\/lovebyelenita.com\/ Lovebyelenita]]:\nDate #103: Lovebyelenita\nWhen I was about 12 or 13 years old, I had my first crush ever, the son of some new friends of my parents, and he was just charming and adorable. Tonight\u2019s date wasn\u2019t actually that boy (imagine if he had turned up!) but looked enough like him that I did a double-take when we first met.\n\nSome strolling, some wine \u2013 plenty to talk about, and I think I sensed a connection. At the end of the date, he told me he\u2019d had a really nice time, and hoped we could get together again soon. Only a few hours together, and I sensed a level of warmth that I don\u2019t think I\u2019ve ever felt with UN. I know \u2013 it\u2019s wrong to compare \u2013 but it\u2019s unavoidable.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-04-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2024-04-10","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"AGoodDistraction","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_creation_fiche":"2025-04-10 11:20:44","statut_fiche":"1","date_maj_fiche":"2026-02-24 09:56:18","user":"185.135.87.36","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-04-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222024-04-10\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022AGoodDistraction\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-04-10 11:20:44\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222026-02-24 09:56:18\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?AGoodDistraction"},"HoneyImHome":{"bf_titre":"Honey, I\u2019m home!","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4icCU4f We Lived Separate Lives]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RgT69H We Were Living Like Roommates]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4igvRYq The Real Reason You Haven\u0027t Found Your Perfect Partner]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i96MOV Why Aren\u0027t You Married? Facing Your Love Alibi]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ie1L7G Ever Have A False Positive In Dating?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4lJOB5E When Love Manifestation Turns Into Mani-Frustration]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XY1z5A Are You Discounting Yourself In Love?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ie1O3m Ordering Love Like A Latte]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RSlS0s Looking For A Quick Fix For Your Love Life?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ikvKeu Impatient for Mr. Right?]]\n\nDid I scare you? I mean, did you think my long silence was due to the fact that I was marooned in a snow drift somewhere freezing to death? Or perhaps I\u2019d been thrown from the bobsled and run over? Were you grieving for me?\n\nYeah right. I know you were really just annoyed that I hadn\u2019t said anything yet. Well fine. Whatever. I\u2019m okay though.\n\nIn fact, LC and I had a grand time playing in the snow. While I did not prove my amazing athletic acumen, I also did not manage to fall over, injure myself, or do anything else with a potentially high amusement value while we were out there. I did, however, learn to properly appreciate the value of good snow pants and a wooly hat.\n\nUnfortunately, on the drive home from our weekend in the snow, I caught a deadly virus of some sort and landed myself flat on my back in bed for an entire week. And not in the fun way. So that explains my failure to update in a timely fashion. Never fear though, I have returned to health again so my antics here will not suffer permanent damage.\n\nAnd I missed you too. ;)","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-04-15","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-04-15","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"HoneyImHome","date_creation_fiche":"2025-04-15 17:40:13","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-04-15 17:40:13","user":"74.7.242.19","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-04-15\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-04-15\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022HoneyImHome\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-04-15 17:40:13\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-04-15 17:40:13\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/mooc.remixthecommons.org\/?HoneyImHome"}}